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If so....HELP! About to get excluded nicked twice by the filth & winds me up on a daily basis!! I'm already on medication & need some help!!
Please dont send silly answers like bin it, gag it etc etc

2006-07-09 08:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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if your child is getting this bad.. you need to let her see it. remind her of all the stuff you have been through as a mother to protect him/ her and to raise him/ her well. Go out places together, shopping etc so you knwo you can have fun together.

if all else fails.., .i suggest going on a tv show such as jeremy kyle. obviously you will not want to, but he often resolves things.. ?

2006-07-09 08:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

OK, first thing, don't panic. Adolescence is tough, he is reacting and finding a way to gain attention. Firstly, is the school doing all it can to engage him/her? Are you upholding their decisions or is he/she playing one off against the other. You refer to the police as filth, it won't help him/her if he/she feels that he can do no wrong in your eyes, so think about changing your attitude to authority and give him a sense of your loving him, but not liking the things he does. Find an activity that you two can do together. Find help, ask about parenting courses, often run free by local education authorities, see your GP, are there any medical reasons for this behaviour, its not unknown for aggressive behaviour to be caused by physical reasons. Ask the GP to refer you to Child and family guidance. You need this help and you need to be well and strong enough to find a way to start to enjoy your child and your life. I wish you well.

2006-07-09 11:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by silentium aqualis 2 · 0 0

I am not sure what to say to you.
If you are having some problems with your teenager I would suggest family counseling.
Maybe you need to spend some time together doing something you used to enjoy doing together. Something positive like fishing, or going to the beach, or a ball game. If you can find a way to reconnect with your teenager you will be able to communicate with each other again.
I know I see a lot of parents talk to their children in a very negative, bossy way. Eventually you will drive them away if you are always rough with them.
I have always been very kind to my son and he is a very well behaved, respectful person.
Keep trying, be loving and patient. Let them know it means a lot to you.

2006-07-09 08:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by mom 5 · 0 0

Yep i have a 16 year old son who is a nightmare i personally don't think there is enough help out there, they don't come with handbooks i guess we have to wait and sit out till they are grown up, i am on anti depressents and i am pushed to limits.... i have 3 teenage sons the other two can start as well which really sends me loopy.

2006-07-09 08:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

take her to the doctors sometimes there is a hormon imbalance that can cause this kind of behaviour failing that tough love stop bailing her/him out make them take responsibilty for there actions short sharp shock so to speak the sooner thay realise that parents wont always put up with their abuse the sooner thay will stop.

2006-07-09 08:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by shorty_196901 1 · 0 0

teenagers require time and more importantly "space"

things you shouldn't do is pester them with questions like, what do you want to eat, what did you do today, who were you talking to on the phone, etc.

they will not tell you, or even if they do it wont be a straight answer.

this is hard to accept but todays teenage kids will call that as tresspassing their personal space. leave it they will come to you.

they need space give it to them.

2006-07-09 08:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by zombika 1 · 0 0

Most are out of control at that age.Ive tried everything,nothing works.Im counting the days til she moves out

2006-07-09 12:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

teens dont do it on purpose, there is too much pressure on them these days, in yr9 choosing options for the rest of their lifes! pressure from fammilies, if u dont do your best then your dead! it aint fair anymore! it is all stereotypical now!

2006-07-09 09:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie_92 2 · 0 0

who knows what goes on in their heads! Thats not helpful I know,just want to say that most of them do come out of it eventually,not much help I know.Hang on in there and try not to shout........Theyll just shout back............goodluck,hope someone can help you both.

2006-07-09 08:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by learning the lesson 5 · 0 0

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2006-07-10 05:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by stevenmanone 1 · 0 0

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