im in a bad relationship..my only way out (for me) is to find a new man....i want to find someone else before i feel like i can leave..does anyone else ever feel this way...i guess im just afraid to be alone HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 07:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by freesiahigh7814 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to find a new man in order to leave someone else. You need to be brave and tell this guy you are breaking up. Don't beat around the bush; but, come right out and say it. If you do rush ahead and get a new man before breaking up with this guy, what happens if you find out you made a bad decision and you now want to break up with the new boyfriend? Does your cycle of old boyfriend/new boyfriend repeat itself?
You must understand that you are an important person. I taught my daughter that a man has to deserve her. She will date or dump a guy based on that information, and she will not have to run to another guy for security. Don't be afraid of your boyfriend, be mature, stand straight, and face this person. Leave him because you want to, because he is not good enough for you, leave for whatever reason, BUT NOT because you found someone else!
2006-07-09 08:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a bad relationship why do you need to get a new man. My advice to you is leave the relationship you are in now and give yourself some breathing space.
2006-07-09 15:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really common for a women to feel that she needs a man to carry her but u dont if its bad then LEAVE.....................you dont need anyone to carry u.....u can make it on ur own and when u find a new guy u find a new guy but that shouldnt be the reason u leave
2006-07-09 15:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by princess1panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be in a new one to get out of the old one. Leave now and get your self esteem back. Do things that are good for you.. like go to the gym, go out with your friends, go for a hike. You should be happy with yourself first before you date others. Good luck.
2006-07-09 15:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by FunInTheSun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need help, but on a professional level. If you are just afraid of being alone, then seek psychiatric help.
2006-07-09 15:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend stop worrying, go out there and find yurself a man
not just anyman a man that knows how to get the friction on
2006-07-09 15:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by D mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep posting this question and soon you'll have about 150 new boy friends.
2006-07-09 15:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did once and 4 years later i finally left on my own. so get out now.
2006-07-09 15:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea I feel like this all the time...if you ever need some one to talk to email me at rdbowles12390@yahoo.com
2006-07-09 15:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is place that may have some answers for you:
http://www.takebackyourheart.com/
2006-07-09 15:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋