2006-07-09 07:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by rochelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
A dysfunctional family is a family in which conflict, misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur continually, leading other members to accommodate such actions. Children sometimes grow up in such families with the understanding that such an arrangement is normal.
Dysfunctional family members have common symptoms and behavior patterns as a result of their common experiences within the family structure. This tends to reinforce the dysfunctional behavior, either through enabling or perpetuation. The family unit can be affected by a variety of factors.
There are common prototypes for dysfunction. Family heads under-function, providing few boundaries and little guidance. Their children are left to fend for themselves. Others are inconsistent or violate basic boundaries of appropriate behavior. Family members may then have profound difficulties both with their own conduct, and their ability to deal with others.
Frequently, the dysfunctional family stems from alcoholism. The problems created tend to be chronic, and are passed down generation to generation. Even if abuse of alcohol ends, the family system created may continue in the children of the children. The effects are on what is often called the inner child (by educators such as John Bradshaw).
Children growing up in a dysfunctional family have been known to sometimes adopt one of five basic roles:
"The Good Child" – often the family hero who assumes the parental role.
"The Problem Child" – the family scapegoat, who is blamed for most problems.
"The Caretaker" – the one who takes responsibility for the emotional well-being of the family.
"The Lost Child" – the inconspicuous, quiet one, whose needs are often ignored or hidden.
"The Mastermind" – the opportunist who capitalizes on the other family members' faults in order to get whatever he/she wants.
2006-07-09 08:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by ted_armentrout 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When no one is happy. Every family has their problems, but if they can get through them and remain happy...I think they are fine.
2006-07-09 08:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every family is dysfunctional in one way or another--the term is a misnomer in my opinion
2006-07-09 08:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Suzan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine
2006-07-09 08:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the simpsons
doh
2006-07-09 08:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by ceaskew25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the osbournes!
2006-07-09 08:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋