Why would he use me to make it look like he's not gay? I feel so used!!
2006-07-09 07:57:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM...n a public place...better if it's in front of people he knows...punch him if u r strong enuf...if not then slap him or throw water or coke or something n his face
2006-07-09 08:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using you as a front because he doesn't want people to know that he is gay, he is probably afraid about what people will think if they find out and having you as a girlfriend takes away any suspicion that he is gay. I'd say you should leave him, life is too short and there is no need for you to stay in a relationship where there is no chance of a future together, go find yourself a real man.
2006-07-09 15:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more worried about if I were going to get aids. Get checked for that. And you are a better person than he is, don't let him drag you along. Move on and find someone that will be true to you. That's the problem with men like that, they aren't man enough to come out and say it. Instead they put you at risk with a deadly disease that won't wash off with Ajax. Don't let him come back to you and tell you it was just a one time thing or you will be sharing him with the guys the rest of your life. Your better than that, it's not OK to be treated like that by any man, or woman for that matter. Good Luck, and God Bless You.
2006-07-09 15:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me only, I had a baby by my gay lover. They are so wrapped up in protecting their image that they don't care who they hurt. They are selfish and don't care about any-ones feelings but their own. Break up with him now and let a real man be the man of dreams. The sad thing is, my ex-lover doesn't even care about his daughter. I think he's jealous because he isn't as pretty as her. Leave before this happens to you.
2006-07-09 15:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that ., but I think you should cut your lost now !!! You need to find somone that will love you back equally and unconditionally .I have heard about men doing this to hide from family and friends till their ready to come out .Basically using you as a shield for awhile ..you have othing to be ashamed of as you have doen nothing wrong ..but I think you need to start a new leaf on life
2006-07-09 15:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him use you for that. Get away. Let him use someone else. If he is gay then he needs to deal with it and not be scared for anyone else to know. But are you sure he's gay and not bi? Talk to him. Then dump him if he isnt really in it to be with you.
2006-07-09 15:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by faery1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my cousin was married to a gay man...be thankful it didnt go that far!!!!!! she is going through hell..after 6 years of being together she has just found out. she felt used too. but now she is free to find a man who will love her and not just use her for a cover up
2006-07-09 15:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by freesiahigh7814 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really knows what his motives are. But if he really is gay, I'd just break it off with him. Unless of course you want to try and convert him. Good luck with that.
2006-07-09 15:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Road Trip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. let him tell u why he did it.
did he tell u he was gay or did someone else hae to tell u??? and if someone else told u do know for a fact that it is true??? you have to understand his side before you do anything horrible. just be nice at first then u can be mean if did use you. just try to understand him first.
2006-07-09 15:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by watdahellrudoin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look your hurt. Yes, but put your self in his spot. He's come out of the closet where it's hard to be excepted. He's as hurt or as scared as you might be.
2006-07-09 15:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by steve f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋