should i save sex until marage or shoul i doit now?

Answer 1

mm... depends on how prejudiced you and your man and your and his familiy are, but I would advise trying out sex before. if nothing else, it may turn out your husband-to-be is violent or insufficient, and it's easier to find out before the wedding, rather than wait and be disappointed... not a few of the divorces (I had heard a statistic of 70%, but I don't recall precise sources) are brought about beause one or both partners are not sexually satisfied. Makes you stop and think, at least it made me stop and think.

And I always preferred knowing. If I find there is a problem, I'd rather know before I am commited, not after. But that's a personal preference.

But if your husband-to-be is likely to be upset about sex before the marriage... don't even mention it to him.

I hope you see what I mean. Try to make things easier for yourself, but not by making it harder on the other parties.

Answer 2

This is a personal decision. Alot of pressure is put on having sex before marriage. If you are young then a centainly suggest that you wait. Sex is not all its cracked up to be! Not only do you have the physical emotions but the emotional goes along with it too. This is a decision that you have to make for yourself. Do you love and respect yourself enough to wait? Do what you think is right for you.

Answer 3

Do it now. If only to make sure that the man you one day marry will be able to satisfy you and will be satisfied by you in return. You wouldn't buy a car without driving it first, and you only keep those for about 10-15 years. Marriage, ideally, is for life, and a good sex life is an essential part of it. Practice makes perfect, after all.

Answer 4

Wait. It will be so much more special on your wedding night. I made the mistake of giving it up before marriage, and I regret it every day. I'm not saying it will, but crap happens. You don;t want to give this man your purity because you think you'll be together, and break up two weeks later. It will break your heart. And thats not something you can ever get back. Save yourself for him, and for your marriage. You wont regret it. I promise.

Answer 5

Sex should only happen between to totally commited people. Most like to wait till they are married cause then your smarter and have jobs to support a family. And if your BF is pressuring to to have sex with him then you should let him know your not ready and if he cant respext your wishes Dump him fast

Answer 6

Depends on whether your planning on having kids. Just look at your future and think of how would you respond to a question from your own child. If you leave a good example, you have a better chance of convincing your child to honour your request whereas...

Answer 7

I think people should wait till they get married because it should be special and it is the right thing to do. Of course i live for the Lord and that is why i feel like that

Answer 8

well i think if u want or have the feeling to have sex with someone it should be that special person just wait a while wait lik a year an if you still feel the same way i say its your decision we dont have to wait till marriage but parents want us to to make sure we r happy who were with an will hopefully be with forever

Answer 9

You should wait. And find a husband who is also a virgin or one with very little sexual experience. Those who have extensive premarital sexual experience rarely remain faithful. They're used to variety and they like it and chase it. No man wants a woman who is a slut. Not to mention the chance of disease and pregnancy.

Answer 10

Do what feels right for you. If you feel that you are ready, go for it. Just be sure that you are ready and not caving into pressure from some guy (been there, done that). You'll know when it's time. No one else can tell you, only your opinion matters. Take care. :)