I have this boyfriend that live 2-2 1/2 hours away from me! I just saw him for the 2nd time in 1 year! He has called me twice and when I would call.........he would say that he has to go do something and he would have to call me back or his mom or dad picks up the phone and says that he is not home and that they will have him call me back and he never does! That mean that he is cheating on me or does that mean he wants to break up with or he did break up with me?
2006-07-09 07:16:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is saying that you should find someone new who lives a bit closer and will be more attentive to your needs.
2006-07-09 07:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by mike53153 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say like that guy's line that wrote that book "He's just not into you" I believe is how he would say it. Only two times in a year? Granted he doesn't live close, but still. Like I said if someone is truly into you they will make the time no matter how far to see someone they truly want to see. And if for whatever big reasons he can't physically see you. He would call, write, email, there are so many other ways of communication these days he fails to do any of them? I would say you are hanging on to something that is not there. You should know that you deserve more than that. That's not even a relationship. How are any of your needs being met. There is no emotional or physical needs being met at all in this relationship, actually not really even a relationship, there is no relating going on. I am sure if you stop your focus on this guy, who is definitely not focusing on you. You will open your eyes and see there is someone else out there probably a lot closer than you think who would give you a lot more than this guy ever has or would. He's just not that into you. You should want more and get more in life than that!
2006-07-09 14:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that but if you said you only seen him 2 times in a year it don't sound good i understand if he lived maybe 16 hours away, you did int say how much do you guys talk on the phone i think you guys should talk about it because real easily he could be doing his own thing because things ain't really serious with both of you guys if you feel you really love him and feel that hes the one give it your best to put some work in, you need to start seeing each other way more so there could be real strong feelings and attractions in both ways and know each other more thrue person other tan the phone but really think about it because for this to work you will totally need to change alot good luck keep me up dated.
2006-07-09 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by MARIAAAA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
called twice in a year? Only seen him twice? I would say this is not what you would call a relationship, atleast not a healthy one. If you are not considering leaving the relationship, then i would strongly suggest that you do. The benefits are small and you need more than that to be in love with someone. Take it for yourself.
Keep your head up and look the other way!
Peace
Matt
2006-07-09 14:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by MastaP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have only seen one another twice in a year's time, and you rarely speak on the phone, he is NOT your boyfriend. This is NOT a relationship. To be your boyfriend, he will want to talk to you often and be with you often. This is not the case here. It seems to me there never WAS a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship here, so there was nothing to break up. Find someone who lives closer to you that you can spend time with and share with. You will be much happier.. Good luck
2006-07-09 14:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1stCourtney long distance relationships never work. 2nd if you only seen him twice in a year most likely hes cheating on you. Sorry but im being honest. So what you need to do is break up move on and find some1 closer. Hit me on my E mail if you want to talk more, If you do remind me
2006-07-09 14:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that this isn't working, and break up. I think he's already moved on, but just so you know for sure where things stand, you should break up once and for all. He just didn't have the nerve to tell you that he doesn't have much interest in you. It may not be you, its just that you're so far away. Find someone new when you're ready, but this guy is not really your boyfriend at all.
2006-07-10 06:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by percolated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've seen eachother 2 times in 1 year, and you spoke with him twice on the phone, it makes me wonder how you do keep in touch and why you are together in the first place. Really, this is not how love works! Its better to move on and find someone who loves you and with whom you can build a healthy relationship! good luck
2006-07-09 14:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie sorry to tell you this but you have been dumped. In the worst way possible dry your tears and wipe yoru eyes everything will be alright. They are too many fish in the sea to be stuck on a guy like that go on about your mary way
2006-07-09 14:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Eclipse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice in a year?!?!?! and he doesn't talk to you much.... I would say that there is no relationship. And that hes probably not really interested. If he was he would want to talk to you and want to see you and he would def. return those calls. My suggestion... DUMP the loser and move on to someone who will treat you better.
2006-07-09 14:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋