We have never met face-to-face, and she proposed. I sent her my pictures that were really of me. How trusting should I be that she did the same?
2006-07-09 07:04:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What?! Never met face to face? You need to spend TIME together - a LOT of time - in order to know this. You're obviously uncomfortable with the whole thing because you're asking us. Go with your gut, man. DON'T DO IT. It sounds like she's desperate if 1. she proposed; 2. without ever meeting you; 3 you have to wonder where her standards are if that's the case.
If she'd met the next guy and you'd blown her off, would she be proposing to someone ELSE right now? That's just foul...and you're smelling it, admit it! Say NO.
2006-07-09 16:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think the obvious answer is--NO!!! You have no idea what this person is like. The Internet is a tricky thing--you can be anyone you want, you can send any picture you want--they don't have to be you. The only way to find out if things are true in what she is saying --is to meet her face to face. What kind of person proposes to someone who they have never met? This is so fishy---I strongly urge you to insist on a meeting. Get to know her in the traditional sense---then you will truly know if she is the one for you.
Good luck!
2006-07-09 14:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you need to meet face to face first and spend time together and then see if you to can be together. people can say what you want to hear with email but its hard t hide who you are on a one on one basis. You really need to spend time with her and get to know her. offer to meet her some place and y'all take it from there and then you wont have to worry if that is her right photo or not.
2006-07-09 15:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by aenease5974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane? You need to get to know people beyond a keyboard! Yes it may work out, or "She" could be a 70 year old man living in his basement wanting you to put lotion on your skin!!
2006-07-09 14:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tanja J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to meet her first and then spend time with her before you decide to marry. Tell her that will be fair for you both.
2006-07-09 16:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be smarter than that!! Would you trust a complete stranger that says "Give me $20 and I'll bring it back to you in five minutes, and I'll double it." You wouldn't be so trusting would you. Please let the Lord guide you, but in the mean time please USE YOUR BRAIN!!!
2006-07-09 14:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by larissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?! Marriage is a lifelong commitment that needs to be taken seriously, not maken a mockery of...........
2006-07-09 19:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u insane nonononononononononono what if she is slob or somthing and arent u sposto purpose to her
2006-07-09 15:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by pixietipper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get to know her in person not on the computer
2006-07-09 16:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥MyLife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, you should at least make sure the person is who they really say they are.
2006-07-09 15:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by starrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋