i have 2, twin 2 year old girls and i am 7 and a half months pregnant with twin boys...im not a sl*t i have been raped... your help would be amazing, thanks
2006-07-09 07:00:10 · 27 answers · asked by kagomas_sucidechild 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
give them all up for adoption
2006-07-09 07:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I feel for you I was 15 when i had my son 18 when i had my daughter and am 19 and pregnant i know how people can look down on you What helped me through it was family and close friends maybe that's what u need feel free to IM me or email me anytime congratulations girl don't listen to these ones saying you cant do it cause u can i did it by myself for 4 years now going on 3 kids if you feel you cannot take care of all of them your best choice is adoption but with the right support system you can do it I'm sorry to hear you were raped i know how that feels there is alot of emotional scares that come with it if you havent already i would seek counseling and they're might even be a place to help you with the stresses of having kids so young don't listen to these women they just want to knock you down you have done nothing wrong don't let them upset you because that is what they want they're mean and cruel go with your heart and your feelings they are never wrong and for everyone else LEAVE THIS GIRL ALONE she has done nothing to any of yall shes going through some stuff and was looking for help not people to look down theyre noses at her none of yall seem to know how the real world is now days so if u cant say something nice dont tell her nothin at all
2006-07-09 07:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by squirrellchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, jughead, I think a girl knows she's been raped.
2nd, "big d," YOU should "grow up" and stop attacking and judging kids.
3rd, dang, kagomas, you are as fertile as they come aren't you?
I'm not sure what the best advice would be in your situation as I don't know if it's someone close raping you. Or if you even HAVE the type of parents who would help you. But I CAN tell you this. If you feel it will be impossible for you and 4 children, then adoption would be a good thing to consider. At least your children, when they grow up, will realize you loved them enough to be sure of their well-being. Just be sure that the twins you already have are brought up knowing about their siblings already. Never try to keep them secret. I went 15yrs without knowing I had 2 extra brothers. I know how that felt.
2006-07-09 07:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by DcoolS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please consider counseling for you. Rape is a very traumatic thing for any person, then to be pregnant as a result.I hope you reported the rape before you found out you were pregnant.
Anyway, for you and those darling little children... I very much think you should consider adoption for at least the new ones. Four toddlers, even at the age of fifteen are too much for anyone to have to handle on a 24 hour schedule. I do not know how much family/community support you have, but I hope it is enough to help you make the best decision for the five of you (even if that is to keep all four babies).
2006-07-09 07:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Wheelchair Deb A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made a step in the right direction by posting your question. Obviously you are reaching out. Please continue to do so.
I would like to make a couple of suggestions.
1) Edit your post to include the City and State where you live. DO NOT put your real name, address, phone number or your e-mail address.
This way people that reply to your post could let you know what and where help is available.
2) Don't despair. There are a lot of loving and caring folks that want to help you.
3) Don't get lost in your own thoughts for what has happened to you.
Wishing you all the best.
2006-07-09 07:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you will have your hands full. Are you sure that you are telling the truth about being raped. I guess it is kind of hard to believe that you could be raped 2 times and get 2 sets of twins both times.
2006-07-09 07:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by randy j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were raped twice? Was it a family friend or family member,or a stranger? I feel very sorry for you . I am very surprised you weren't made a ward of the state to protect you .What are your parents doing to help you? I don't know what to do to help you ,if this is real .I hope you aren't just playing a sad game with people on line.
2006-07-09 07:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill the father for starters. Bless your heart. You will need alot of help. I raised two boys close in age,and I am about bold and sit around rocking saying I can fly.Ha,Ha But throw in a couple girls and they would need to go on and call the guys in the white coats. All you can do is love'em good luck with that. You will do fine. Bless Be,)o(
2006-07-09 07:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Witchy Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry...I'm not sure I understand....you have 2 year old twins and another set of twins on the way....are both pregnancies the product of rape?????
2006-07-09 07:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your patents should step in and help you figure your way through of out were your girls conceived by rape also or just the boys what r your opinions that you have can you please tell me more about your situation i am sure i can help but there other question that have to be answered first you can email me at sassyladytee@yahoo.com if you want the help.
PS i have 3 children and i am young
2006-07-09 07:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by sassyladytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First pray about it, get some counseling asap through your insurance.
You can do this , dont let anyone tell you what you can not do. Everything happens for a reason, God will never put anyhing on you that you can not bare.
Contact me directly also
Here is a site that my help you
KM
http://stepinfaith.org/
2006-07-09 07:24:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋