Were both ready but im kinda nervous i wont perform or might do something wrong. So far i know it wont last long and she'll probrobly bleed.
2006-07-09 06:59:56 · 13 answers · asked by im just a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just take it very slowly,
1) rub each other so you get her wet and horny(do very, very slowly) have her rub you too.
2) if she says stop, listen to that, no matter what you are feeling
listen to her.( maybe tell her just to touch very slowly and you both tell in words, how to rub each other and then tell each other if it feels good so you can go from that) might have to take her hand and have her put your penis in her hand and then she can take your hand and move it up or down, in or out where she feels good at.she will know.(or you could rub yourselves to show each other how that feels to you)
3) after she is really wet then you can slide slowly into her: be on top of her( the more wet she is the better and the slower too) so very, very slowly you slide into her.
4) then after being in her you go in and out very slowly, the slower the better for both of you. have her lie on her back and you both push into each other slowly, but very slowly. then you get a rythm together, and then you can go faster, but slowly at first inside of her.
5) kiss her and hold her and have her do the same to you.
this should work for the first time.
this is how I did it the first time--- yes it did hurt, but doing it slowly and making sure she is completely wet inside will work for her.
hope this helps, im wet just thinking of my very first time 17yr ago.( you will be ok, by taking it very slowly and rubbing each other first and getting wet, and horny)
2006-07-09 07:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave Sex Alone Its The Worst Possible Thing To Start Doing Stay A Virgin As Long As You Can,Get An Education,Get A Job,Get A Life,Then Maybe Then Think About Sex,Its Disgusting,Believe Me Its A Nasty Thing,You Can Get Sick And Even Die Its Addictive Like Drugs,No Sex Please,You'll Always Want It Its Best Not To(Truth)If You Love The Little Girl Ask Her Dad What You Need To Know
2006-07-09 07:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by dogsx11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you need to do is make absolutely sure you are using adequate birth control. after you have that taken care of then you might be ready. yes you will most certainly do things wrong, but she's a virgin so she won't know it either! you'll figure it out, relax, go very slow in the beginning so you don't hurt her anymore than it will anyway and dont set your expectations up to disappoint you. at first its most likely to just be strange and bizarre, it won't really get good until later on when you have some confidence and know whats going on.
2006-07-09 07:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should think about the situation. Does she sound hesitant when you bring it up? More then likely she is not sure about losing her virginity to you.Once its gone she has lost her innocence. If she is positive she wants to then think about this. This act is going to really hurt her. Its going to feel awesome for you but she is going to be in a lot of pain. Try to go slow for her so the pain is not overwhelming. You donut wan her to faint during this act. You also should remember to use protection. And I don't mean just a condom. Make sure she gets in BC. Condoms could brake and if you get this girl pregnant and things don't work about between the two of you, your screwed.
2006-07-09 07:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she can bleed. so make sure u are ready to wash the sheets, but it doesnt always happen. try to make it something u remember. oh and lots of foreplay, so that u make it fun for her. cause it might not be the most pleasant thing her first time. and dont worry since its both your first time a few mistakes are likely and needed for learning
2006-07-09 07:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how old are you two? You sound a little young to be doing it...I'm not saying you should wait til you're married because that would make me a hypocrite, but, if you have NO IDEA how to go about it, than that tells me, you are way too young. Maybe you should wait. (If you're not, my apologies.) IM and we can talk, ok?
2006-07-09 07:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow, gentle, and a sense of humor. That way if you snap her bra instead of unhooking it, you can laugh about it instead of dying of embarassment. If yuo're too nervous winky won't wake up. Just relax
2006-07-09 07:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Theresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay are y'all married?? If not just wait. But, if you can't ask your dad he'll tell you!
2006-07-09 07:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go at it and make sure you add foreplay before you have sex
2006-07-09 07:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't know what to do because you are too young and not ready!!
2006-07-09 07:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋