I have dated men that would say I have a pretty smile and a great personality. But that is where it ends. We would go out and date but not hang out with their friends. I think most men want to have a fit women standing next to them to show off. I'm I right?
2006-07-09 06:52:38 · 10 answers · asked by tannya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you get more guys? Maybe. But is more guys what you want? Or one good guy?
2006-07-09 06:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are partially right. Men go out with women reglarly for two reasons. If you understand these reasons, then you'll know what you're into.
1. Men go out with women for sex. The more the better. The more you show them you want them sexually, the more popular you will become.
2. Men go out with women to show off. I'm my girl is better looking than my friend's girlfriend, then in a man's domain, I've won!
When a man finds a girl that has both 1 and 2 above, then he has a winner! He'll consider a long term relaltionship. We all know those type of girls are rare.
On the other hand, if we go out with girls that don't have either 1 or 2 above, the relationship is due to eventual failure. Most likely sooner than later.
Hope this helps. You might not like my response, but at least I'm real!
TX Guy
2006-07-09 14:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys only look on the outside instead of the inside so...guys do like fit women but if i were u i wouldnt loose a pound cause once they find out that all the skinny chicks are using them and are as mean as can be then all the boys will come for u not because they have no dates but because they like because ur u so i personly wouldnt change a thing u will find a guy who will love for who u r
2006-07-09 13:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dorky K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-07-09 13:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Yes I am the example one and a half years back I was over weigth I started workout and now I am slim many girls friends now I have dated. Before no girls was looking at me now I they enjoy my company because now I am slim and trim with goog looking. So try this best of luck
2006-07-09 14:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to say, but yes, you are right. Most men will not date obese women. A little chubby or pudgy is ok, though.
2006-07-09 14:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change just because some jerks dont love people for who they are.be yourself.my mom used to tell me,"if your comfortabel with who you are,but others arent,who care?if your not comfortable about what you look like,do something about it."
do what you want.im a curvy chick.i have problems too.dont worry.look around,most people arent skinny,they are average
2006-07-09 13:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleigh(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any woman under 175... is worth doing
2006-07-09 13:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-09 13:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
myself i like a woman that is more voluptious than skinny
2006-07-09 13:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by charley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋