my daughter is bisexual and ive noticed lately her mouth is getting bigger and BIGGER----------what do i do
2006-07-09 06:35:40 · 25 answers · asked by mousee1234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You stop judging. It really is that simple but I'll expand. Your daughter is doing what she feels is right, it dosen't matter how you feel about same sex relationships, you don't have to live in her body 24/7 she does, so she has to do what she feels is right for her.
Your daughter is not a freak, she is different than what you expected her to be, face it would you really want a "perfect" child? That would get old fast.
When you were young your parents probably thought you were a freak for one reason or another, for that matter theres likely someone in your life who thinks you are a freak, but if you are happy with who you are then their oppinion dosen't really matter.
If you continue to act like your daughter is an evil alien you will only alienate her and no matter how you feel now, when she is gone you WILL miss her. Do the right thing now and start accepting her.
2006-07-09 06:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by PrincessB 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to understand how or why any parent would classify their child as a freak. Are you a loving parent that supports your child and hopes her life with be filled with joy and that she'll mature to be a wonderful person? Focus on the positive attributes in your daughter and offer her sincere praise. Children learn what they live. Be a living example.
2006-07-09 06:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by CosmicKiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Set reasonable limits for her. And get yourself some support. People who identify as bisexual, are frequently making the decision not to decide, to be eternally ambivalent, so that makes for a lot of extra attention and unnecessary drama. You don't have to necessarily buy into it, and depending on her age, it may be just a phase. Go for lots of long walks. My prayers are with you.
2006-07-09 06:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your attitude is the problem here, perhaps your daughter just wants attention and is going through a rebellious phase. Either way, now is the time to show her your support and affection even though she is turning rather strange.
2006-07-09 06:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by cgc17788 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to fill her with love, and if the mouth gets too big you can book her into Ringling Brothers as a side show.
2006-07-09 06:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by jegreencreek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing except LET HER BE HERSELF. You gave birth to her, but it doesn't mean you have the right to control her sexual preferences. She's not just going through a phase - bisexuality isn't a phase, it's a lifestyle.
2006-07-09 06:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by miss_gem_01 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to calmdown and love you daughter she loves for who you are. And things will be ok for you too when you are ok with her. Just remimber to be a mommy because life is to short and anything can happen she needs you.
2006-07-09 06:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by danjessemilykami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sick question. If you really love your daughter get over it or you will lose her as a close person
2006-07-09 06:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Saulyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*just because she's bisexual? or r u just thinkin dat her mouth is getting bigger? u just cant accept da way she is*
2006-07-09 06:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by anerwuvzraul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love ur daughter, u wouldn't call her a freak. u don't deserve her, even if it is unusual u shouldn't say stuff like that about ur daughter.
2006-07-09 06:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by jellybean_shellybean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋