i just want a guy to make me happy but i don't think i will ever
find him
2006-07-09 06:08:53 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta wait sweetheart....love doesn't come everyday..love is a once in a lifetime feeling..either that..or he's right in front of you and you're just oblivious...or you have to wait until the right one comes!
2006-07-09 06:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of the things you expect of a man, then go over it. If there are things in your list that you could not stand up to, then maybe you are expecting to much. The main thing is to find a man who will enjoy your company and who will understand your ideas. Try not to expect to much from him. You can't have the cake and the icing all the time. My husband and I get along great, but when we first got together there were some upsets. We had to learn to respect each others differences. Try these ideas and see what happens. Again, don't put your standards to high.
2006-07-09 06:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by poor tiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have to be happy with yourself first! In fact, that could be the very reason you aren't finding a man... no one wants to play savior and have a woman hang onto them and depend on them for everything. A lot of men want equals... someone that take care of themselves. And it's not fair to place responsibility on another person to make you happy... that's a tall order! Would you want that responsibility?
Get right with yourself first... THEN get a man.
2006-07-09 06:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by fragglerockqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hard look at yourself. Would you date you? There are a lot of guys out there that are looking for good women. Most women think that if a guy is not hot, rich and an asshole they dont want him. They all want to fight over the same guys and overlook the ones that are really good people.
2006-07-09 06:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by jimbobb1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm....i think u have a high expectation and a perfect image of how that person should be,coz if ur searching for someone u must be daydreaming and fantasying about how u want this person to be,and then u look around and meet people and they just dont go with the person in ur head,thats why i think u should give the guys around u a chance maybe one of them is the one u want and ofcourse be patient...or maybe u wanna try a dating website
2006-07-09 06:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young, I wouldn't worry about it. Just keep your attention on making yourself the best and happiest person that you can be and the right one will find you. Don't try to rush into anything or force someone to like you, it will only make it blow up in the end. He will be there when you least expect to meet him. I've discovered in my life that as soon as I stopped dating and trying to find Mr. Right, a really great guy came into my life.
2006-07-09 06:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first problem, no guy will ever MAKE you happy, you have to happy with you, a guy should be a nice addition to your happiness not what your happiness is based on, keep that attitude and you are guaranteed a miserable life. secondly, you'll find one but get yourself straightened out first or it won't last anyway.
2006-07-09 06:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a problem to get a right person or just a guy? Sorry I do not understand, for me I have problem to get a right girlfriend. To get a girl or a boy it might be easy for everyone but the right person is not easy, I think.
2006-07-09 06:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by vison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time and you will find the prefect guy to make you happy. I waited and i found the right guy for me and he makes me so happy. good luck hun
2006-07-09 06:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being happy with yourself first ! Your positive outlook will be attractive to guys. It really shows when your positive and confident in yourself the same way it does when your not
2006-07-09 06:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋