lovers need
2006-07-09 06:05:52 · 20 answers · asked by cool guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
be yourself and do something sweet to get a girl's attention...key word, sweet
2006-07-09 06:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh... yea I know the problem. Yes, you can attract girls...just certain girls! Some guys can walk into a room and make 80% of the girls melt to their knees...while others guys would walk into a room and 30% or 2% of the girls would do the same. Just doesn't seem fair now does it?
Girls react not just because of looks but also personalitys and more importantly signals that your body emits, which creates the electricity "spark" that plays between two people. YOu can talk too 100 girls and out of that 100 you may find 1 or 2 that will have the same draw...its like you found the other part of you... this spark is a sign that you could create an INTENSE relationship if you got together but...the girl has too feel it too!... Personally, Looking back I like the fact that when I walk into a room I am looking for the 1 or 2, not the 80% which create random, short and low quality relationships....
What you have is a unique personality that will only compliment itself when you bump into a young girl that will amplify your spark and you do the same for her!!!!!!! Which means you will have to hunt a bit more...but you will find random is better then making a whole room of girls squeel.
This quirk that you are experiencing are the traits that bring about stable relationships that when you are committed to that person and she does the same too you will last a life time. You are the kind of guy the girls need to find and hang on too and not the flash in the pan they think they want.(the guy that melts the room to all girls).... you will be a fine catch some day it's just the girls arn't wired too see that at such a young age, but like you, there are some that are sending the exact same signals and those are the ones who are searching for you! All you two have too do is too "bump" into each other and you can litterally feel the electricity between each other, ..it is an incredible experience , the draw is incredible, and remember you don't care about the effect you have on the room cause your body is looking for the 1 or 2 %, that one girl, your searching for that spark!
Now; no matter how hard you try you can't change or cover it up...your body, your signal so too speak will only be received by these few girls so it is very important to be yourself, not dorky, funny, just be yourself or you will mask who you are and not send the right body signals. What you must do is give it time. Don't ever expect to be like those other guys because you will have deeper, stronger ties with the girl that finds you and wants to be with you. Like in all young relationships you will get your heart broken several times but then you will find the one that will "click" and stand by yourside forever...
good luck..
2006-07-09 13:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are being too macho if you know you look good you are probably going around bragging about how good you do look or making yourself look even worse than you think. Sometimes its not the looks that the girls are after it is the personality the things you say and do and how you treat people you are probably so stuck on yourself that no girl would want to be with you because you may look in the mirror more than she does, it is good to have a self-image and to love yourself and think highly of yourself but turn it down a notch take the emphasis off the looks and put it on your personality and other traits that you have that maybe you forgot were even there. Good Luck
2006-07-09 13:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by ttsdschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once you STOP trying to impress...you will succeed!. Play it cool:) don't show your need to get impression. Show them you are not really interested, while continue making brave --one step on a time--contact will do good. Research has shown, girls --even though many claimed so--not very much into 'nice men'. To attract women you must use a different approach. F.e: don't be shy to critizize -in a polite light manner of course--rather than complimenting in your first encounter..it will have a deep effect on them. And many other ways. But truly..play it cool..don't confess your feelings to early, don't take things for granted too early as well...Wish you success!(..oh!don't forget to invite me..if the bells rang!!:) )
2006-07-09 14:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by imethimhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Key is to be yourself. No matter what those girls say or want! You'll find the girl that loves your personality and even if you don't impress . . . she'll probably be the one making you laugh! So truely, just be yourself!
2006-07-09 13:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by yoyohil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being on line to fine a Young women like I use2do here
was go in to romance or cultures and communities on yahoo chats
go to a fore in country and find ppl who will chat with you for this as a practice you can get better at it I been on line for 5yrs now I work as a on line directer for peace. my experience is Philippine's
u have a cam they look at you they have a cam u look at them talk ask what they like just talk what you like they will even leave there number on there cell phone to you to call them up if they know enough english they will try to talk to you just call verizon or at&t for cheap rates give them ur address and I assure they will call and write you back they will not ask you for money from you
and they are Katholic look for there age have a pratice to talk to them if there interesting you they will go with you but pick one person who you like they are ok I have done this for a long time depending who you will find make sure they are not to get ur money
2006-07-09 13:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by edward_church2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't like guys who are wayyy too confident. YOU are WAYY to confident. No offense.
If you really want tto know how to express ur love, just imagine that the girl u like is one of ur girl bestfriends.
Make her laugh, happy, and make her feel good about herself.
Have fun ---- u need to think about fun to be able to express ur feelings..
Try it out- really works ;]
2006-07-09 13:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Maria_missing_you♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look good, that's pretty good for me but not totally. Are you sarcastic? Rude? Do you do weird things that embarass people when you're with them on public?
Do you have any talent? Like singing, dancing, or can play an instrument. Show her. She might like it.
2006-07-09 13:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by ladylike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have some self esteem issues.
My husband and I met through an ad. We were penpals before we started dating. I was impressed by his intelligence, warmth and humor before I even met him.
2006-07-09 13:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.the first thing you do is ignore her.it drives them wild.if they know you like them and one day stop looking it drives them wild.step two.find as many female friends as possible.this is great for so many reasons..first she will see you always surrounded with girls..and she will wonder why??then it also show her that you can hang with the girls without hitting on them so it shows you have respect for women and self control.also if you listen to them women are the best teachers..they will share with you thier likes,dislikes,turn ons,turnoffs,ect..when she does notice you dont jump and attach yourself to her leg like a pup..be cool and let her make the move..if you do what i said i promise you will have more women than you can count.good luck.
2006-07-09 13:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. you don't have to act... unless you want to act for the rest of your life?!
If you impress a girl, it will not be fake, she will be impressed by you and your REAL charms.
2006-07-09 14:30:07 · answer #11 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋