I have what seems a bad combination, I am a big guy who is a nice guy, a kind, caring and really romantic one. Do girls really want to be with me? It just seems that I either end up getting hurt or used. Do girls not like a big guys who are nice?I would really appreciate some advice.
2006-07-09 06:05:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately it does seem that nice guys finish last but hang on in there. Go out with mates and have a laugh. Put the idea of finding true love out of your head or you will never find it. Just go out to have fun and if the right girls comes along, great. But just enjoy life in the meantime. There is nothing more of a turn off than a shy bloke or one that is obviously looking for someone. When you do start dating, take it easy. Don't go in feet first, girls hate that and will feel trapped and that everything is going to fast.
Good Luck
2006-07-09 06:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by willowbee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop looking for it. Love finds you when you least expect it. As far as you being a big guy well there is nothing wrong with that and their are alot of woman out there that loves a big man. Just be selective and not let yourself be taken in by the first girl who show interest. You sound like a man that has a lot to give so save it for the one who truly deserves it and you will know who she is when she comes around.
2006-07-09 06:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by aenease5974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be ready to find someone. Plan things out, think about yourself and how you should be acting. Then go out when you get the chance and try meeting some people with a good personality. Girls like guys like you, but some sluts might do bad things so you have to pay attention to that. Don't let them use you, you'll find your love. You have to be patient.
2006-07-09 06:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay positive. If you are genuinly a nice guy, you're time will come when you meet the right girl for you. Get out there by going on dating sites, go to speed dating nights with your friends or just take part in other kinds of activities. But sometimes when you're not looking it finds you. Go out with your mates or do things for yourself that you enjoy and be content with yourself and you will attract people to you with your positveness!
2006-07-09 06:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find your true love until you truly love yourself. Confidence is the key to catch any eye. People are generally attracted to men/women who are genuine, fun to be around, and NOT desperate. You should also take a look at the type of men/women you date, broaden your horizons, and stop letting looks alone draw you in. Remember a perfectly red apple can have a rotten core!
2006-07-09 06:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by blueskie712 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know everyone's said this already but don't rush it..give your sweetheart some time to come around
and there's nothing wrong with big guys who are nice..just dont forget to be yourself and dont change just to find someone who you think will love you
im sure theres tons of girls out there who would prefer a big nice guy over a hot jerk..trust me
hang in there =]
2006-07-09 06:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by sun kissed 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a big nice friend. He always gets stomped on. I always tell him not to be so nice. Girls don't like it when you pour it on to thick. You probably are the same way so it will be a long road but you will meet someone.
2006-07-09 06:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by STEVE-0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...every girl loves a nice guy...the time willl come sweetie....just wait..time will tell..love is a once in a lifetime feeling..it doesn't come everyday....you gotta get hurt for you to learn what kind of girl is good for you...
2006-07-09 06:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter if u r big or small what matters is whatsin ur heart and how u treat people , i think u have 2 wait and then the girl of ur dreams will come 2 u and i hope that she will be sensetive and caring and treat u as u desreve
2006-07-09 06:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by ddddd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are shallow and that's not your fault. i bet your a great guy, because you really do seem like it. that special person is out there you just have to wait a little bit. be patient, and really get to know your friends and find out who they are before you date them. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-09 06:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by LatiNa_beAutY* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋