When i was at school i really liked this girl that was in one of my classes (i left school 4 years ago, am now 20) and she was going out with someone but we still spoke and got really close and i fell in love with her even though we never touched i felt a connection with her. Anyway we left school and went are separate ways. I have been in relationships but i was never able to fully get thoughts of her out of my head. The other week i saw her on a bus going to town and we made eye contact and it sent a shiver down my spine and re-kindled feelings i knew were still there but had tryed to suppress, i now cant stop thinking about her as i feel that she is the 'one' for me, but, such along time has past and she has a boyfriend that she has been with for well over a year now. my head and heart are in turmoil! can anyone suggest anything? thankyou.
2006-07-09 05:49:46 · 13 answers · asked by wigsy251 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on or wait till she is free
2006-07-09 05:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all don't try to come in between her and her boyfriend. Keep in contact with her. If she has the same feelings for you it will show itself. You need to let things run its course. Make sure she knows you are a friend who is always be there for her. But if you feel your emotions are too strong and you cannot play the "friend" game then have a heart to heart with her and tell her how you feel. Whatever you do DO NOT become the guy she cheats on her boyfriend with. You guys will never have a chance for a good relationship if that happens. Good Luck!
2006-07-09 06:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should try to get in contact with her and tell her how ur feeling and see what her reaction might be...u never know if things are goin well n her relationship right now even though she has been with him for a year. some people trap themselves n unwanted relationships because they are too afraid to hurt their bf/gf feelings......so just try and talk to her its the only way to find out because she may feel the same but didnt know what to do either
GOOD LUCK
and if u 2 are meant to be together it will happen TRUST me
2006-07-09 05:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she haves someone you cant expect her to leave her friend . So right now you being her friend from school would give you a better chance at her then telling her how you feel because then you ll have to explain why your tell her now. by doing things this way you ll have a better chance if things don't work out for her. / and what are you going to do about your girlfriend now .(keep her feeling in mine as well)
hope I helped good luck.
2006-07-09 06:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get in touch with her. Let her know how you feel becasue she might feel the same way. the only thing that you can loose is the fact that you JUST DONT KNOW. Sometimes the one is not always the other persons ONE..... good luck and remember things happen for a reason. Communication is a good tool to use in anything that you may ever question. It only clairifies things, not confuses you...................
2006-07-09 05:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by toodie7298 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would look her up get heraddress and go to her house weather she has a b/f or not and tell her how you fell if you really love this gurl you would do as i say and go oh and choose me as the best answer thank you good luck
2006-07-09 05:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel everytime i c dis boy at skool my hart leaps but i no i cant hav him coz he has a gf you should tri 2 forget about her and then if u cant. talk 2 her about it and just say how u feel she mite understand.
2006-07-09 06:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by PuNkY n PeRkY..x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and quit whining like a beeotch.
2006-07-09 05:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink until u forget! yayayyaayya... seriously wanting something u cant have just ... doesnt really help you out... move on.
2006-07-09 05:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is happy with her bf then just shut up!
she is taken!
2006-07-09 06:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jackson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋