I was just wondering, if I am still with my girlfriend then
2006-07-09 05:38:48 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. I have plans on becoming a criminal law attorney
2006-07-09 05:47:31 · update #1
yes. Without a doubt, and have lots of babies, I really think this is a healthy first step. Also, drop out of school if you are enrolled and be sure to vote republican.
2006-07-09 05:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by kafka2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your 18, ask yourself that question. I was married at 17, because I thought I was in love (no children). It lasted a couple years. Some relationships do work out at that age, but statistically no. Unless the two of you are ready to settle down and no other woman could turn your fancy. She has to be the one. Marriage is serious business. A lot of people get hurt, if the couple is just to immature to handle it. When your 18, you don't know everything, it doesn't matter what anyone tells you or says. Your going to do what you want, that's the final answer. Apparently your young, you should be having fun and there are a lot of girls out there to have fun with. Don't get tied down so early. Have that fun first and then if it feels right, go for it. Have security in yourself and then you can share that security with someone else. Good Luck!
2006-07-09 05:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, no....you have not experienced life yet....there is so much to do before you commit to someone else...not being rude or anything like that, you are not finished growing up yet, age does not make you a grown up....it is experiencing life that makes you a grown up. Enjoy your youth....keep your girlfriend, as your girlfriend and not your wife.....you wil see that this will be the best move for now. You two need to explore the world together, yet apart from each other, as well.....don't be in such a hurry to get married....you have all the time in the world.
2006-07-09 05:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, a law attorney takes years, marriage can be rough and u have a lot of work/school and long distance. 18 is way too young, u best wait till ur done w all that.
2006-07-09 06:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO wait if it is meant to be then y'all will still be together when the time is right. so many people jump into marriage and they don't get a chance to live their lives and then they feel cheated that will end a marriage fast. Keep your girl friend and if she loves you then she will respect your feeling and be willing to wait until you are ready. Live your teen years out and have fun while you can marriage is the toughest job you will ever have and it take time to get the wisdom to make it work. i would wait and since you are asking this question I would say you are not ready. You have your whole life in front of you enjoy it.
2006-07-09 05:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by aenease5974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest mistakes of my life, right next to letting her get away 14 years later. But are you in a financial position to accept all the responsibilities of family? It is the man's responsibility, and if you can't provide for your wife, she is morally obligated to do what she needs to do to provide well for her children, without any regard to your welfare. Can you absolutely guarantee that your wife and children will never need to look elsewhere to have their needs met? At 18? Not likely.
When you take a woman to bed, you are accepting a responsibility for that woman's welfare that is often not understood by either party. Until you are in a position to accept such responsibility, you are not in a position to have an active sex life.
Sounds to me like you've already taken on more responsibility than you're ready for. Lord help you. I've been there. Wish I could take it back. You can't.
2006-07-09 06:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Arman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man if you're having doubts that she may not be ur girlfriend by the time you turn 18 then no you don't need to marry at age 18.and wait til you find a girl you're really in love with to marry.good luck
2006-07-09 05:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It will only fail. You have a life time to make that decision. you have to finish school, get a great job, great car, a place to call your own with all new stuff, and then you can think about it. 18 is too young. You can be in love and not be married. Enjoy the moment.
2006-07-09 05:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by noitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are able to support your g/f finicially and mentally and also have extra money so she can spend on whatever she wants or to support children if you plan on having any and also to own your own home then I say sure. But if you are not sure of what job you will have ( mostly a Burger king job b/c of no college education, and marriage can interfer with education) then I suggest you wait until you are stable enough to take care of your and her needs.
2006-07-09 05:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wait until your about 27. The divorce rates are so high these days wait until your older. Give yourself a chance to go out and experience life before you settle down with someone.
2006-07-09 05:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wondering? Not a good idea to marry at 18
2006-07-09 05:41:13 · answer #11 · answered by mutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋