I will not date no one else because I am wanting on this guy. This guy is married but only their for his kids so he says. He spend all of his free time with me when he is not with his kids. He tells me he loves me and all that jazz but also he keeps saying well when we end up together and when we move back in together. Please help i am so confused. I love him so much but I am not going to wait around forever and plus they are to many hott guys out their for me to sit around and look at the sky...Advice would be nice
2006-07-09 05:29:12 · 10 answers · asked by Eclipse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is married and saying that to you, he is no prize. You will never be able to trust him.
Dump him, mourn the relationship. And then look for someone else when you are ready. Remember you are worth it. And that means you should not have to share the one you love with another woman.
2006-07-09 05:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave this guy alone. Trust me if he'll do it with you he'll do it to you. The relationship is going nowhere you will never be able to trust him if you guys get together. Do not waste time on him. Cut off all contact. Go find yourself a honest man. If he really loved you he would not still be married. Don't believe the "I'm only with her because of my kids" BULL*****!!!!! MOVE ON!
2006-07-09 05:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like there are "too many other hot guys" what it your point in waiting?! Why him? Move on and remember that talk is cheap... Leaving a family is nothing one does over night... As long as the fellow knows he can have you and his family, why would he be interested in change?! Good luck, not an easy call.
2006-07-09 05:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just making his life easy, nobody stay in a marriage for his/her kids, marriage is more than that. If he does not have the guts to separate from someone who he does not love, do you think he is worth it? if you love him is not going to be easy to separate from him, but that is the right thing to do. He will never leave this family, he does not need to, he has everything he wants, the stabilitly of a family, and a second front to relax.
2006-07-09 05:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Margot E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop waiting around and dump the married guy..He is there for the kids "YA" right ..wake up...He is only using you for his pathetic sexual drive..Because his wife is not doing the job right in bed...Get out while you can and go find yourself a real man..Someone who is single not married...Care less if you are in love with him or not...Just think about what you are doing about being a homewrecker w.h.o.r.e...Get out....
2006-07-09 05:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by tinytim10193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with this man you should know it. But maybe you need to ask yourself if he is married and fooling around with you will he do the same to you if you were married to him. The talk of leaving his wife may just be talk and he is taking advantage of you. Give this some thought.
2006-07-09 05:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa little sister! This situation has bad, bad and worse written all over it!
This man is using you. Please don't be blind to that, please.
Little sister, I beg of you please have more self respect and self love to not allow yourself to be the "Other Woman". Because at this point that's what you are.
First, if he got married because of children then that's his problem to deal with. Not yours.
Second, he's not going to leave his wife. Don't you know he's sleeping with the both of you?!? Don't beilive him when he says that he's not because HE'S CHEATING ON HIS WIFE!!!! Please think about this sister, if he's cheating on his wife and getting some at home....What makes you think he's going to give that up?
And lets just say for some strange reason he did leave his wife for you. What makes you think that he won't get you knocked up, marry you and cheat on you with some other woman?
SISTER PLEASE DO NOT FALL ANY FURTHER INTO THIS MANS LIES AND DECEPTIONS.
This man won't respect his own responsibilies what makes you think that he has any respect for you? I'm sorry love but this man is deciteful. This man is lying to you if he says he's going to leave his wife.
Leave him alone. This relationship is not going to work. All he's going to do is let you down, dissapoint you and string you along.
Don't let him do it. You have the power to stop it. Leave that man alone. I don't want your story on Oprah or Maury. Girl please have more class than that. Please have more self respect, please love your self more, please be more sophisicated and cultured than that.
You and I both know that you're worthy of enough to have a man that is committed to you and only you. Not you, his WIFE and his kids. You and I both know you're worthy of having a man that won't lie to you and be faithful to you. Not you and his Wife.
My adivce. Haul azz. Leave that dude in the dust. Block his number from your phone. Don't call him. Don't give him another chance to lie to you and string you along. Be stronger than that. Demand better than that.
Best of luck to you love and i'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you.
2006-07-09 06:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be sure that he said the same things to his wife that he is saying to you. And eventually he will find someone else to say those same words to after you. Don't let him mess your life up, shut the door on this relationship and find someone who you can be the first for.
2006-07-09 06:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by wildmlwilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A close male friend of mine once said, "Men are pigs."
Are married men less? You're asking for trouble here, and if he has kids, YOU'RE really low!
2006-07-09 05:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Nani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. If he's cheating on his wife, he'll cheat on you too. He's a snake!
2006-07-09 05:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋