arright everyone, so i'd expect someone to help me out of this mess i've made up for myself =(
i'm actually stuck up with 2 girls, both of them seem to be seriously in love with me, and i love a third girl...
the first girl, my fault entirely, i kinda dragged her into falling in love with me and the second fell in love with me outta nowhere !!
and the third girl i love, i just havent been ablt to talk it up wid her!!
Help me out - this is getting on my nerves now - and i think im gonna go mad - how do i tell the girls i dont love them?? i'm really bad at saying 'no' to ppl and i feel very bad when i hurt someone!!
Help!! anyone??
2006-07-09 05:25:44 · 26 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell A, that B told you that C is in love with you!
Tell B that A told you that C is in love with you.
Tell C that A and B are lesbiens
2006-07-09 05:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by guy in Yemen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, dude..its a little too complicated. As you've not told d 3rd one that u love her,its better you forget about her. Living with the one who loves u is more than anything in this world,trust me it is!! I think you should go to the 1st one because u made her fall in love with u which means that u also loved her at one point of time. If u go to the third one n make her also fall in love with u might like the fourth one:-)..so give the first girl what she deserves. Dont complicate things. U never know, d 1st n 2nd girl could probably spoil your relatinship with the third one. At one point of time u might feel guilty for having done that to the first one. Convince the second girl that u never saw her in that way. Good luck!
2006-07-09 05:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Vasuda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot let someone down, you don't have any business dating. That's part of how Life is...there are going to be people who like you more than you like them, there are going to be relationships that are great for a while, then run their course and end...everyone needs to be able to do the right thing, let the other person down (gently) and move on. Stringing someone along is wrong, staying in a non-working relationship is a waste of everyone's time...
Treat others as you'd like to be treated...would you want someone to be with you, if you knew they didn't really want to be?
Tell the 2 girls that dig you, that you just don't feel the same way about them...it'll sting for them, and be uncomfortable for you, but it's the right thing to do. Then you'll be free to pursue the girl you like, and find out if she feels the same way about you.
Good luck.
2006-07-09 05:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to stick it out and tell them you are not ready for a steady relationship because this is what is sound like. Do the right thing, even if someone feeling is hurt, better now than latter. They might not like you right now but time will make them think, hey! he was honest enough to tell me. Tell them, you would want to know if it happened to you. Good Luck
2006-07-09 05:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sneaky feeling you're at an age where it isn't really love. Either that or you have an over active imagination.
Just tell them. They'll get over it.
Tell them it's you, not them, that's the problem. You're simply not ready for a permanent commitment and still learning what's right for you. Stop throwing the word love around so recklessly.
2006-07-09 05:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one who is in your every waking thought. You have to be honest with the other two. And don't put the other girl on the back burner as a fall back in case the one you really like doesn't work out... that is just wrong.
2006-07-09 05:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by miss_chrissy_dawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first after u get outta this mess,u do not commit to no girl.thats how u stop hurting there feelings and u date who evere when u want,now if u dont want to email them,buy each one a nice card,give it to them,but tell t5hem not to read it till you are gone,then go home and sit back n wait for the phone to ring,donot commit,but tell them u can still see each other,but not as girlfriend,cause u have other ladies u want to go out with,and good luck.
2006-07-09 05:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by kathy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Girls are crazy let me tell you that. No girl likes to be told no. But if you want them to like go away...I suggest saying
*Its not going to work out between us, I'm sorry. Can we still be friends?
*Listen..I don't want this to seem mean, but I just want to be friends with you. I'm interested in someone else.
or something along those lines
Good Luck :)
2006-07-09 05:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kristine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky u hit the road and find a new one unless you are truly IN LOVE with the 3rd and then go for her . Life is too short to be with someone you are not really Passionately in love with.
2006-07-09 05:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by ₦âħí»€G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell the 2 that u don't like that u found someone else and that ur sorry but thats just how it has to be. then talk to the third and wala ur out of the mess
2006-07-09 05:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋