I am 16 and my g/f is 16. We met off of myspace.com. She lives in texas and I live in tennessee. We have good conversations on email and by phone. We don't argue about anything so we have a good relationship. My Q is. Do you think our relationship work or am I just in this relationship for nothing?? Should I find someone in my area or should I stay and see if we ever meet?
2006-07-09 05:15:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, for now, being realistic she is your friend. if you both help each other on line, that's fine.
just remain REALISTIC.
2006-07-09 05:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships can work. Long distance relationships can not work. It really all depends on the two people involved, their level of commitment and their ability to be pacient. I was with my first for 2 and 1/2 years. It was a long distance realtionship for the first 2 years. Obviously it did'nt work. After he moved down to my state he became a different person. The romance faded and we broke up.
My present boyfriend, we've been together 1yr and 10mnths, the first 6 months were long distance and I just got back from being away for 9 months we're still together and very happy.
So you see you need to take into concideration that 1, not every realtionship is the same. 2, you're age 3, all the things that I mentioned earlier.
Is there any type of plan of one moving to the other's location? If there is'nt then the relationship probably won't work. You can't stay apart for too long. In order for a realtionship to work, the people need to be with each other. I hope this is making sense.
Seeing as you two have'nt even met face to face yet I'd say stick to being friends. Friends that turn into lovers make better relationships. That's a fact. Take it slow, don't rush anything and keep your self open and honest to her. I hope this helps you some. Best of luck.
2006-07-09 12:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if ur happy then keep your relationship going. My mom and Dad met over the Internet they were friends for a few years dated a year and now they have just recently had their 1st wedding anniversary and they are one of the happiest people i know. My little sister has a bf in NJ and we live in KS and they have been dating each other for 2 year even when me,mom and my sisters lived in RI (moved to KS be4 my mom got married cause my dad lived here) w/o ever seeing each other just email,IM,phone calls,letters and pictures and they swear they are in love and hopefully this summer they will get to see each other finally. So if ur happy with her wait and see where things go.
2006-07-09 12:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Just_A_Goof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting on email, even with web cams and phones and all, is always different then meeting for real. So you wont know till you have met for real. Besides not fighting and always agreeing does not mean a thing, you don't have to agree on all subjects to be able to have a great relationship.
Just enjoy your time with her, keep looking around, be honest, and don't rush. Your 16. You have all the time in the world.
2006-07-09 12:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see how long you could hold on this relationship. If you think you just like your relationship in just this way, keep on going. But if you wish to have more than a relationship with physical connection, you just should let it end up with a smile.
2006-07-09 12:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Srey Touch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it's long distance. No, your not getting married so if by work out u mean long term and I mean long term like marriage, NO. But love? Maybe, it could work out for a while and it could okay but not likely. The 60 y/o 40 y/o or other **** morons say is RARELY RARELY true. Most are true to themselves and don't lie.
2006-07-09 12:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships do work if both of the partners are willing to stay faith full.
My friend is from the Philippines and he moved to the states. Five years later he went back to the Philippines and got his Girlfriend, and now she's in the states with him. They both were faith full and now are happily together...
Just be faith full. And if you believe in God/Jesus Christ then pray about it...
God Bless Y'all
2006-07-09 12:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by dronus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is "no"...
It's hard enough having a relationship... when you can see the other person everyday... touch... kiss...
But at 16, TX to TN might as well be Venus to Mars.
2006-07-09 12:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with her then you should stay. Soon you'll be able to meet and who knows you could end up married to her. Follow Your Heart [you don't need any answers to know that].
I hope everything works out :)
2006-07-09 12:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kristine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both. Continue to talk to her on line, but don't become exclusive with her. If the time comes when you do finally meet, then see where it goes from there.
2006-07-09 12:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them are questions you should be asking yourself. Are you just in the relationship for nothing? If you are, then you know the answer to the rest of it.
2006-07-09 12:19:15 · answer #11 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋