I am a coward, so lonely, so affraid of women, I dont know if iam good looking, lost my ability to laugh be witty ect. Because when i meet a nice women, i fancy them, i shell up, the more i like them the worst i feel. Dont misunderstand me, the women doesnot know whats going on? "I hope" she must think," what a wally"!!!, I feel uncomfortable, in my own skin. I think women are goddesses and everyone of them deserve to be loved + worshipped, Sex is for loving! emotion! not lust? but i feel guilty, so afraid of being rejected. I am a normal guy who doesnot want to be hurt or rejected. P.S Dont want people telling me to get help. I want answer!!! witty coments!!! No recommending doctors. I need a few women to hold me!! Stop the tears. I remember that feeling when meeting someone you fancy. Its wonderful, dancing and singing in your head!! HEART!!! SONG "Whats in a kiss in a kiss d.. d ect "NAT kiingcoal song" i think. bye
2006-07-09 05:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by dankankirstchar@btopenworld.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not good with Drink. P.S Trying to learn how to reply ect!!!
2006-07-09 05:20:23 · update #1
"BLUESTAR" Thanks
2006-07-09 05:30:05 · update #2
Don't know much about nudist camps, but I would stop taking life so seriously. Next time you meet a girl, just remember it doesn't matter at all and don't fear rejection, then life will be easier for you. Try online dating too, that way you can meet people and get to know them a bit online or on the phone before getting nervous face to face...
2006-07-09 05:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Philosophical 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if your that shy the last place you should be going is a nudist camp,Why not join a night class something your interested in ?Or perhaps a self assertive class something on those lines ,do you like reading ?maybe a book club ,something where you can slowly build your confidence up, Your main problem seems to be a deflated ego and lack of confidence and you need to work on these first before moving on to the next step,
2006-07-09 05:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww! im shy too.
I've never had a boyfriend or even my first kiss, i just think someone will come along and understand you and then you will come out of your shell. from what i read from above, you've explained yourself well but you're making it sound alot more complicated than it already is.
Im glad you respect women as you say that's one of the first things women love about a guy.
let me tell u my story... there's a boy that fancies me, but i don't want him coz he's already been out with 3 of my mates, yep 3 of my mates. he always waits for me on msn and i then have to use my other email. im friends with his sister and when i go to her house he seems to follow me everywhere and it irrates me! Im gonna chuck him coz he's also a liar and destroyed the frienships of his sister and another mate.
You are normal in contrast to the boy ive talked about and someone like u wont get rejected in my world. if a girl ever does give her number and i'll beat the sh!t out of her hehe!
Take care and just be yourself. Bluestar xx PS a nudist camp? no i wouldn't recommend it love you'll waste your money...
2006-07-09 05:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my kin we practiced residing house naturism it fairly is gown-unfastened environment while we did not have travelers. It rather helped for physique popularity. while i became around 9 or so we went to a nudist sea coast close to Marseilles and the 12 months while we went to a nudist motel some factor we did for over 10 years. i'm bi yet I m not sure it relies upon on that even nonetheless my journey of a naturist motel made me experience very delicate with nudity mine and that of others. I nonetheless circulate in a naturist motel each 12 months on my own.
2016-12-08 17:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i shar some of your experiences and feel the same way to a certain extent. However, i don't believe a nudist camp will be suitable because if you're not confident with yourself, how r u going to strip in the first place!!!!! I suggest going out with a few friends and getting drunk. That way you don't really care and will talk to any woman. Even those u fancy the pants off!!!!
2006-07-09 05:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by spaced-out 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go to a singles nudist camp. I'm sure you'll be a big hit. It will be fun to read your comments after your nakedness has been rejected!
2006-07-09 05:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Larry H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you judging youself :( ?
Don't make the decision about what the women thinking about you yourself. Remember your not a woman!
Try to watch dramas. You'll learn life.
My advice, don't try to be be cool like John Travolta. Act normally like what you're been doing these years without thinking you're a wally :) I think most women like normal guys who never deceive themselves and think they are wallies.
2006-07-09 05:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by PlainSomething 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all the people that go to nudist camps are the types that need to keep their clothes on.
2006-07-15 14:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by Questions&Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-09 05:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should be playing for the other team. Try a gay nudist camp.
2006-07-09 05:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Big Eric 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋