...a while back she used to be a fat chick?
Would you think that she'd get fat again?
Or would you not care so long as she was HOT now?
2006-07-09 05:05:44 · 27 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I admit, this is a shallow question, but the reality of my life is that I live in LA...and because I lost weight and now am HOT...a guy said being a former lard @&% is no excuse...you will always be one.
2006-07-09 05:17:08 · update #1
If I was a just a mounter (looking for tail with no responsibility attached) I wouldn't care.
If I was a man truly dating you as the potential mother of my children I would be concerned that I was attracted to you -- but I wouldn't be thinking much about "hot"and "pretty" because we all age with time. The intelligent part I'd like. The fat part might be a plus because it shows you chose to take some control over your life (as opposed to a real man's concern that as soon as you find someone to pay the bills you are going to turn into a selfish, lazy, fat, bitchy pig that is never happy).
2006-07-09 05:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For your sake i hope you stay away from him. There is no way you can predict the future. The person you decide to spend your life with will go through many changes over the years. Some you may find hot others not so much. Your partner may lose weight or gain it, go bald, have a disfiguring accident or breast augmentation surgery, there may be illness or depression or alcoholism in your future. There's this whole thing the preacher asks when you get married. Has to do with loving each other in good times and bad etc... There's a reason they ask.
The point is you can't judge a book by it's cover. Maybe he should simply be happy that the person he's interested in cared enough about herself to shed the weight. Now don't date such a shallow jerk.
2006-07-09 12:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by irartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a possibiity BUT she had it in her to lose the weight once which means she can do it again. Besides, what difference does it make? Do you love her from the inside or are you looking for a trophy? You could get fat too.
2006-07-09 12:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a problem: does it really matter what one looked like in the past? Furthermore, if he finds you hot enough and if you know how to keep the fire going--then there will never be a problem of returning weight....
2006-07-09 12:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't care at all, and wouldn't worry about the possibility that she could get fat again. That is ridiculous. If she was a terrific person and I enjoyed being with her, that is all that would matter.
2006-07-09 12:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Philosophical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? Fat chicks can be hot too
2006-07-09 12:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either way it wouldn't change whether I dated her or not and if she had been overweight and worked hard to lose it then I would let her know how much better she looked and support her in keeping the weight off.
2006-07-09 12:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long as she's not a balloon now, and can control herself enough, to avoid becoming one again, I wouldn't care about the weighty past. Provided of course, that she obey me, stay loyal to me, never deceives me, never changes her mind about me, and is willing to learn from me, anything that I know and she doesn't know.
2006-07-09 12:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like fat girls, don't do it. Stick with what you like. Chances are that she'll become big again, especially after having children. Just go by what you see when you visit her family. I just happen to like'em big. Just helping you out.
2006-07-09 12:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Yahoo answer dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd bang her while she was hot then leave her if she ever got fat again. What a simple question...
2006-07-09 12:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Big Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋