This guy i know was hanging out with me everyday, i knew he had a girlfriend, but he and everyone else keeps telling me that he was just using her. Anyways he totally lied to me last night and told me he was coming to my house when actually he knew his so called girlfriend was coming over. I need to get over this guy fast my heart hurts ALOT!!!
2006-07-09 04:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by flutter_by_baby20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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FRIENDS
BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF
Yo made a bad choice in going out with him. He was taken and he is a liar. Dress in a way that commands respect rather than like your are someones party girl.
Don't date someone who can cheat on someone else. Thay can cheat on you just as easily.
Do onto others as you would have them do onto you. If you were going out with someone, would you like it if someone else would date them at the same time.
Anyhow as far as this guy is concerned. GOOD RIDDENS!
You are better off without him.
He was only trouble and it would be worse the longer you went with him.
I understand that it hurts now, use that pain to lean the lesson. He did you a favor. That is, he got out of your life quickly.
By the way, Wait until after you are married to have sex. How do you know that a relationship will last at all if youare not serous enough to get married.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-07-09 04:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 24⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-06 02:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the pieces of your broken heart
And try to start again
Ain't it funny how young lovers
Well they started out as friends
And ain't it a shame
Money can't buy what you need
Pick up the pieces yea
And send them back to me
Well all at once the story changed
When I could not meet your demands
I went from standing on solid ground
To sinking in quicksand
And now I wake up
I don't feel like bein' me
Since you locked away my heart
And threw away the key
They say time heals all words
But I don't believe it's true
'Cause when a heart is truly broken
There ain't nothing you can do
You can kid yourself it's over
But I believe that in the end
Broken hearts never mend
You led me down
A one way track
On your street car named desire
And you didn't send a warning
As to when my ticket would expire
And now I wake up
I don't wanna get out of bed
With the memories of you
Runnin' round my head
They say time heals all words
But I don't believe it's true
'Cause when a heart is truly broken
There ain't nothing you can do
You can kid yourself it's over
But I believe that in the end
Broken hearts never mend
2006-07-09 04:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was your heart even involved, if he was the type of guy who would "use" someone that was supposed to be his girlfriend? He doesn't sound like much of a catch to me a all, more of a creep. Don't waste time or emotion on someone as unkewl as that.
Realize he's not a good guy, and no matter how much you liked him, chances are he'd have treated you as he did his 'girlfriend'...don't let him rent space in your head or heart for free, he's not worth it...be glad you didn't get involved with him...you should be feeling sorry for his girlfriend, more than for yourself...
Good riddance of him...move on and allow yourself to meet someone of quality and character...
2006-07-09 04:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him as quick as possible, go to a party or go out with friends and try to meet somebody new, never call this guy again (at least for 6 months until you heal)
2006-07-09 04:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes getting over someone is hard. But I feel when you are pineing away for someone it is an indication about something in you that is lacking. You were not really in love with him.....
You were in love with the notion of being in Love. How do I know.???
If you look at his actions of seeing two girls at the same time.....You wouldnt normally go for that.
Its wrong and frankly he is a slime bucket for doing it! BUT if you could have convinced him to love you and you only ...It would have romantized the whole affiar because you got him to leave another woman for YOU....This is the romantic part......If this other girl wasnt in the picture...you would not have found him to be half as interesting.
I feel the this man was sent to you as a lesson to really LOOK into what YOU deserve and NOW you know it isnt someone who is so slimy that they would date two woman at the same time!
So at least you have that to thank him for...AND I would tell him that! Maybe it might make him think twice about such actions!
You know you deserve to be treated as the princess you are. Woman want to be cherished not used to feed his male ego...just hink of this
If you were to fall into his embrace.... it would mean that YOU FED HIS EGO....HIS TWO TIMING EGO......( Not capitalized for yelling just for emphasis)
You should and deserve to be sweeped off your feet...not used as a tool to fed his yucky- two timing womanizing male ego filled, gotta have two woaman to feel manly , slimy persona
Yuuuuck!!!
When I think of being kissed by someone like that ..I think of kissing a slimy smelly dead fish...
So think of where his mouth has been and I hope it turns you so off that you find your self a respectful Man that loves you and ONLY YOU!
Good luck my dear you deserve to have the person you want but a person that respects you!
2006-07-09 04:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by LinaE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are a b/f snatcher, what were you doing with him in the first place if you knew he had a gal, l think you were the one who was being used, go get someone who is free and get over someone else's boyfriend
2006-07-09 04:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike the movie "Click" you can't just fast forward through emotions. Time heals. It is tough now, but time does heal all wounds. Been there, done that, way too many times. But yes, time heals all. Sorry!
2006-07-09 04:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by r0cky74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he said he was "using her" didn't give you the right to mess with somebody elses guy. You got what you deserved. Now suck it up and remember this lesson for next time.
2006-07-09 04:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Whiplash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. YOU SET YOURSELF UP FOR HEARTACHE. not only was he using his girlfriend, HE WAS ALSO USING YOU!!!
GET OVER IT.
You allowed yourself to be put in this situation. He's A JERK. FOR BEING A CHEATER AND A LIAR.
is that what you really want in a guy?
2006-07-09 04:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋