i need a way to find out for weather or not this guy likes me without having to ask him my self. or making it obvious I like him. I am almost completely sure he likes me. But I need to know for sure
2006-07-09 04:15:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask...ask....ask...yourself.
It's an important step in relationship building and maturity to get over that hump. Don't be afraid of possibly not getting the response you hoped for. Learning to deal with that is also important. How ever it ends up, I think the guy will respect the fact you approached him yourself. Maybe even enough to spark more interest. If you don't communicate openly now, then it shouldn't be expected that there are strong feelings either way. What you need to know is if he wants to spend more time together getting to know each other more than you now do.
2006-07-09 04:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dale P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come'on, do not do this to yourself.
Your a vibrant, confident, woman. If he doesn't need that in his life then he's trying to be a pastor or rabbi.
Just be honest and play no games with the gentleman. You can show interest without seeming desperate or needy for mutual affection.
He'll respect the Woman and the Lady in you.
Go get, em girl.... Good Luck (wink, wink) ;)
2006-07-09 11:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, Show him that your a real women who isn't afraid of rejection. Just ask him yourself. Whats the worst that could happen? If he says no I don't want a relationship with you then say okay and move on. The word "NO" never hurt anyone. You cant hide behind your friends or family forever. Go on give it a try. Best wishes to ya!
2006-07-09 11:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to catch him talking about you or something, but that would take alot of stealth work, and you not having him catch you and think you're a stalker. But, the best way to know for sure, no matter how much you don't want to, is to ask him, he's got the facts.
2006-07-09 11:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes it's the way he acts around u,
But the sure way he sweetie u may have to ask. But all u really doing is asking if he likes u it really doesn't have to mean anything other then wanting to know if he likes u =-)
2006-07-09 11:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be aloof.......don't call him if a day or two has past and he hasn't called you......let him take the initiative......and DON'T jump whenever he asks you to do something.....every now and then, especially if it's last minute, already have "plans". Speaking from a guy's perspective, it's easy to take advantage of a "desparete" girl.
Wish this thing had spell check....................good luck
2006-07-09 11:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crushing on someone? I know you are, because if you really knew him, you would be able to tell through his eyes and the things he does for you, if he liked you or not.
2006-07-09 11:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he take cares of u when there is trouble and he be beside u alot where ever u go
then for sure he likes u
2006-07-09 11:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him to follow you anywhere and everywhere.
or If he does the same on his own, then sure he loves you.
2006-07-09 11:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too afraid to ask him, yourself. You can have a friend ask him. Maybe one of his friends, or one of yours that he knows as well.
2006-07-09 11:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋