I have grown up with this guy and we had puppy love. However, he liked this one girl more. As years went by, he and the other girl did not have the love thing going. She even called him a family friend. He now states he has gotten over her. However, during the time he was getting over her he liked me very much after we met from a 12 year break in our childhood love. He told me how he wanted to marry me as a kid, but tells me about his current multiple sexual partners. I am not sure if this is love yet because I want to see what he can do for me. He takes me to a job I applied for that was on a secluded herbal farm and while we are in a Yoga room he tries to make out with me. I say no and he says I am like a sister to him any way. However, sometimes we have those simple romantic flings such as a kiss, movies, hugs and little caring comments. I do not know where this will lead because he still says he has sex with other girls and not with me. He has even hid an STD from me. What do I do?
2006-07-09 03:49:02 · 9 answers · asked by Sweet S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like this guy is not ready for a relationship. He needs to mature, still. You two are at different points in your lives. He apparently didn't have an eye opener when he contracted this STD....because he continues to have a vicarious sex life. Old flames might feel so fuzzy when you are exploring the possibilites; the idea of it is like a fairy tale love story. Just don't get caught up in it, hon! You sound like a very intuitive person, very intelligent, and very compassionate. Make sure that you get what you deserve!
2006-07-12 17:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on and don't look back unless you are ready to open your heart to casual sex. Your guy has told you in several ways that he is ready for sex with you and whoever else, but I've not heard anything about an exclusive relationship.
2006-07-09 10:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by ROXY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really know the answer already. Your words say so. You said what he can DO for me. That is not love. You do not love him.
2006-07-09 10:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he obviously doesnt love you if he didnt tell you about his STD. if he still has other partners, you should just move on. your relationship wont go any farther.
2006-07-09 11:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by krush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer, don't do it move on and find yourself true love.
2006-07-09 10:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not love he is just hot in the pants. he probably cares for you but is not in love with you.
2006-07-09 11:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him,let's me and you talk(-;
2006-07-09 10:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That ain't love...
2006-07-09 10:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
no its not love?
2006-07-09 11:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋