i am only 19 and have slept with 200-300 guys. i want to get surgery to make me look like a virgin. will he believe me? what do you think?
2006-07-09 03:38:50 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holy crap? 200-300 guys....thats like an average of a differnt guy every 3-4 days...which is impossible....unless you are a prostitute....then i hope your getting paid well enough to get that surgery.....If what you say is true...i don' t think surgery is gonna work..its probably too far gone to help.
2006-07-09 03:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 200-300 guys? or just times?? I had sex hundreds of times by the time I was 19 but with a handfull of steady girlfriends... Anywayz sorry, but if you put details like that you have to expect a sort of response, right.
I'm 10 years older than you and Married. 6 years and still going. And one thing I can tell you is that you and your Spouse will want to know about each others sexual past and experiences. I don't think you need to tell each other everything, but lying is not a good idea either... This surgery, sure why not, maybe it sort of represents a new start for you, OK... But you can't change the past with it, and hiding or lying about it to someone you love will only hurt that person.. I told my wife the truth as she did to me, and I wouldn't have it any other way
2006-07-09 04:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then I am sorry for your fiance, because he is obviously not engaged only to a liar, but to a whore, as well. I pray for him and any children that may be born to you. The biggest concern you should have is not how you can further deceive this man, but how you can finally come clean, be honest, and start trying to be an honorable, descent, and loving person.
Tell him the truth so that you will not be the shame of his life. When someone you've been with approaches you in his presence, you will shame him, his family, yourself, and your children.
Leviticus 19:29
"'Do not degrade your daughter by making her a prostitute, or the land will turn to prostitution and be filled with wickedness.
2006-07-09 03:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are not ready to get married if you are even considering lieing to your future husband about your number of partners especially your virginity! Second, I highly doubt he will believe you since there is a major difference in the level of comfort an experienced person and an inexperienced person are with their bodies as well as the way they perform.
2006-07-09 03:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by brandi91980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother with the surgery. Just pretend like it hurts because not everyone bleeds the first time. Tell him you used to ride horses and that's when it broke. It's not a great foundation for a marriage if you are basing it on lies though.
2006-07-09 03:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by sticky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kind of relationship do you have if you are not married and already you are telling lies? Since you slept with so many guys there is a good chance he will find out about a few of them at least, unless you keep him away from everyone from your past. Trust and honesty is very important in relationships.
2006-07-09 03:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by burrowthroughanelephant 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is such a good idea.I won't judge you,I can see how other people react.Best thing is to be honest.Especially about marriage.It is holly and you have to respect it.If you love your partner,you have to be honest with him. But,you better visit a doctor for an advice.Because he/she has much more knowledge and experience than us here all together.At least,for medicine.
Good luck! I hope you enjoy your marriage.
2006-07-09 03:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessie, baby what do you take us for? born yesterday bums? If you "truly" accomodated 200-300 guys of all shapes and sizes then you'll be needing a jackass for a future husband.
2006-07-09 03:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a hymen is not proof of being a virgin. It breaks when you do other things other than sex like gymnastics and sport. If you have had sex your not a virign and thats a hard thing to cover up.
2006-07-09 03:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by hollycatherine99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on marryin' this guy, why lie to him? That's a horrible way to start the marriage.
Just be truthful, don't have this surgery, and just live life. I'm sure if he is considering marryin' you, he probably has atleast a little knowledge of your sexual past.
2006-07-09 03:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋