I dated this woman for 9 months. She was married and over 45 years old. We had a somewhat normal sex life. We had lots of forplay and oral. But when it came to intercourse, she would tell me , I have to be in love with you. I could understand if your a virgin, but she was married for more than 4 years, and was over forty five. I don't think she did this to all the guys she dated. As i said we dated for over 9 months`.Another puzzle, evertime we went out and she needed the use the ladies room, she would stay there mor than a half hour or greater. There where times the restaurant wanted to close and waited for us. Hoe embrassing. So what was her problem?
2006-07-09 03:34:19 · 6 answers · asked by napolee_nj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was probably dumping a load - sometimes it takes a while
sounds like she just wanted to be in control with the sex stuff.
just because a woman is over 45 doesn't mean anything. we're all pretty much 11-14 inside regardless of what year we were born.
2006-07-09 03:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you have said a lot but I need more info. Something is really weird here and you have reason to be concern. I don't think you know enough of this woman. Sounds like it can be any answer or she is a he and don't want you to find out, or she is having sex with someone in the back. or has problems with the digestive system. But you said "everytime" you went out she wanted to use the bathroom and would stay there for long periods of time. I would ask another female to go and check and see if she is alright. Or come right out and ask her what is going on and tell her what you told us.
2006-07-09 03:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she married at the time you were dating? Or do you mean "had been married previously"? If she didn't want actual intercourse, she may not have wanted to get pregnant.
As for her extended bathroom use, maybe she was masturbating.
Anyway, it sounds like she has some intimacy problems and should be avoided.
2006-07-09 03:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about the bathroom thing....I think that is excessive. Normally a woman would take 5-10 minutes in the bathroom, even if she is freshening up her makeup. Maybe your friend had a "digestive problem".
2006-07-09 03:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by mistressmalice23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe shes nervous or is having trouble with her period maybe she puts on makeup or she could have trouble going to the batthroom or maybe she was trying to figure out how to0 break up with u or she was taking pregnacy tests she probly has one in her purse
2006-07-09 03:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by brittanywagner@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but hanks for points
2006-07-09 03:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by aman_sharma2k5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋