i cant live without my bf, we broke up last night and he was everythin to me and without him im nothin
2006-07-09 02:59:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he dumped me
2006-07-09 03:02:30 · update #1
Strictly speaking, this isn't a question. And your supposition is b.s.
Of COURSE you can live without your boyfriend, and OF COURSE you are something without him.
You're obviously in emotional pain and hurt deeply but guess what? You are EVERY BIT AS ALIVE NOW as you were when you were with him and happy and in love. This kind of pain is just as much a part of life and is meant to get your attention. And it has. So, what are you going to do?
You're going to hurt and cry and be angry and frustrated and go through an entire range of negative emotions. But you WILL GET THROUGH THIS and it WILL BE BETTER on the other side.The most important thing is to GET THROUGH it. Do NOT give up.
Have faith in yourself and a better tomorrow.
2006-07-09 03:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see why he did. Your too smothering. I can tell by the details you gave in your question. Do you constantly have to know where he is and what he's doing? Do you get mad at when he doesn't call you? If you need to know every detail of that man's life your not living your own. He's trying to live his life but you may have become to annoying for him thus he dumped you. Or maybe you ask too much of a person and they don't want be around you. You will get over it. Live and learn from your mistakes. Who knows he may come back......maybe..Also he is not the only man walking the face of the earth. Let's get real. Quit crying.
2006-07-09 10:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new BF. Quick.
"without him im nothin"? Girl, get a life. I'll bet if I knew you I could find about 300 great things about you in less than five minutes.
If he made you feel this way instead of feeling good about yourself, you are much better off without him. If he needs you to feel bad, hes a total loser.
Good Riddance
2006-07-09 10:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liked the advice from Helen T. --was sound. You are probably young in age- but as you become older you will know that you will recover from all these up's and downs. Have as much fun as you can--get with your girlfriends, keep busy--It's possible you will resume your relationship with your significant other--if you should or you feel you need to move on--just have fun--forget intimacy for a while--just a reminder--base future relationships on-the important things. Forget the sex stuff till the other criteria is met.
Friendship
Honesty
Trust
Companionship
Sharing
Laughter
Fun
Take care--good luck
2006-07-09 10:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Twlight Zone2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, you are more important than a relationship. You are going to have to take care of yourself for a little while. You feel like you can't live without him, but you can. A couple of months from now, you won't remember feeling this way. Indulge yourself today, cry around, call friends, eat, shop, and then make the decision to get on with your life. Learn to be happy with yourself and then you won't feel like this again.
2006-07-09 10:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Helen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only broke up last night...u will get over it. You are only 18 and you may think that he is the only one for you...but there really is "plenty more fish in the sea"
I know that may not be what u want to hear but trust me you will feel better next week you need to take your mind off him, go out with your mates get some good DVDs out that will make u laugh...stuff like that or whatever u like doing.
2006-07-09 10:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can live without him sweetie, He's not the reason ur on this earth. And for u to think ur nothing without can't live without him is sad. Why did u allow urself to feel this way? He's not worth it, u REALLY shouldn't allow urself to feel ur life revolves around him or any other guy. Thats not how it works in relationships and if u feel this way u shouldn't be dating.
2006-07-09 10:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you realize this you are on the path of recovery.. knowing you are so weak and pathetic that you need to be dependent is all so important... That someone has complete control over your life and you can't function without them will only make they take more advantage of you and toy with your emotions... good job...
2006-07-09 10:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by need to know basis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T EVEN GO THERE....I HAD A WOMAN I LOVED VERY MUCH DIE A FEW YEARS AGO AND I FELT THE SAME WAY. MOVE ON. YOU ARE A SOMETHING IN THE WORLD. Go for a walk, read a book, visit a friend, do something but sit around feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-07-09 10:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm sure you were able to live before you met him, life will go on. I had that same feeling that you have when my husband left me two and a half years ago, and my life has went on and only gotten better.
2006-07-09 10:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Maymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋