2006-07-09 02:01:14 · 6 answers · asked by khemck10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Everyone involved have to play a part, for the kids just know your biological family has not changed there's nothing stronger than blood having said this you can build a strong bond with your step family. Just have a lot of patience, respect and understand your biological parent is happy now and you can make them more happier if you try to make this work. Hopefully your biological parent and step parent treats everyone fairly good luck!
2006-07-09 02:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the children are all young I really don't think there should be any problem Love and treat each one equally and they'll be fine but if their older say pre teens look out. And if they have had problems before you got together you'll find no Peace. I've been called mom by husbands kids until they reached the age of 14 to 15 yrs old. We got along great! Then all of a sudden I didn't know who they were, and I was no longer a part of the family. It really hurt! My kids are older don;t live near us. But on visits everyone get;s along just fine. Bringing 2 families together takes alot of work and alot of patience and a whole lot of talking. But if you have the love you'll have a family
2006-07-09 09:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by eyesad2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one thing to remember with a blended family is that you can't try to force it into being the ideal family as though it was not blended.
One thing is to not force the kids to call step dads dad and step moms mom.
Also, it is best if the biological parent disciplines it's biological children. This is easier for the child to accept, causes less resentment, and takes a lot of stress off the non-biological parent.
It can take years for a blended family to feel comfortable in its ow skin, so to speak, so it takes patience.
The husband and wife really need to work together and agree through the process. It the kids see weakness and disunity, they'll play on that and all hell will break loose.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-09 09:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there can, as long as everyone learns to give and take. The important thing is for the Mother and Father to never favor one child over the other. All the children should be loved equally.
2006-07-09 09:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by couchP56 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a perfect balance of ur rights n duties in ur hone, , , , ,
peace normally disturbs when everyone try to ask for the rights n forget their duties towards a family
2006-07-09 09:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by fuad_enjoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give and take . regard all members as ur really family
2006-07-09 09:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋