last night me and my boyfriend told me its over. He said that he cares about me and that he doesnt wanna hurt me. He also said that if he saw me with someone else it would upset him but thats life and if anyone tried it on with me and i didnt want them to then he would hit them. Now i have realised that he doesnt want me even though he cares about me and i texted him and rang him but he has turned his phone off and wont talk to me. All i wanna say is that i wanna see him this week to end it nicely in person and not over the phone like he did. What can i do? I feel so hurt and i cant stop cryin and i dont wanna b her anymore and when i told him this he had a go at me and started shoutin down the phone
2006-07-09 01:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over move on! Seeing him is pointless so stop torturing yourself and move on!
2006-07-09 03:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there!
sorry to tell you this, but may be hes got all what he wanted. And now hes just tired of the same stuff. Understand for yourself Variety is the spice of life. Come on grow up you are into such a mess because you took things from the heart, did he?
Love is to face situtations together, not to leave him/her in mid way no matter what. If you have lost more than he did, wake up and see you are left with so many things still. If you are gonna run behind him for sympathy, BEST OF LUCK! but i would prefer to take things as they are. You might not be the only one who needs him even he does may be if he is serious on you, but does he come to you?
waiting for such a relationship is worthless. You are the boss, so you decide. But dear sweety, theres no way back home as i see it so make your home where you want to.
2006-07-09 09:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realize he dont want you, why do you feel the need to end things nicely? He has already ended things with you. The way he handled it should be a peek into what kind of person he is and make you ask yourself do you really want to be with him or give him any more of your energy. Brush it off and focus on yourself so you can meet someone worthy of your time and attention.
2006-07-09 09:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, u r a very good lady, as you wanna finish this by personal talk and not on the phone, u love ur boyfriend, but ur boyfriend doest not seem to be sensitive to you, see, there are many good persons in this world and you are one among them, you should not bother about hese sort of boys who wanna have fun for some time with some girl and then ditch her off and find another, you should look for a boy who is just like you. never cry , be brave, dont waste your tears for these sort of idiotic people who dont care for you , leave him off, finish it, life is big and you have to face it, all the very best, in case you dont find any other friend, mail me i would be pleased to have a friend like you. dilipkataria2005@yahoo.co.in
2006-07-09 09:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by princeofindia_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to feel that way. If he can't break up with you face to face than he's NOT the man you thought he was. Move on babe. He isn't worth it. I know you'll find someone that you'll spend the rest of your life with
2006-07-09 10:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why you want to see him in person is to either leave the door open or you want closure. I think you have enough answers and need to try to stay away. We all been through it. Foucs on someone else or somthing else.
2006-07-09 09:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by KTOWNANDREW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he doesn't care enough about you to end it in person. He is taking the cowardly way out. My heart goes out to you for your pain, but that is as good as it is going to get. I hope you heal soon.
2006-07-09 09:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds me like its a have a cake and eat it too siguation. first thing you need to do is dry it up!!! dont call him and dont text. he sounds like hes trying to control your relationship with other guys. i wouldnt let him do that. i wold try to start seein other guys.and have fun. dont let him do this to you. you have got to live your life that best way you can. you only have 1 life and dont let this breakup interfer with it!!!
2006-07-09 09:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by bondablegreeneyes2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start gettin over him
2006-07-09 09:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He turned down severance sex?
Trust me, he is no man. Forget him.
2006-07-09 09:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Loretta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋