my 4yr old wont stop peeing on her self how do i make her stop please HELPPPPPP? ANY SUGGESTIONS?

Answer 1

Is it during the day, or at night in bed? If it's during the day, it may be that she doesn't want to stop what she's doing to go, and waits until it's too late. If it's at night, it may be that she's sleeping so deeply, she can't wake up.

For daytime issues....try reminding her every 1/2 hour or so after she's eaten or drank a lot (like after mealtimes)...keep reminding her until she does it.

For nighttime issues....try not giving her anything to drink 90 minutes or so before her bedtime, and make her go before she goes to bed.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I started out by buying a simple white potty that looked the closest to a regular toilet. No bells n' whistles. Then I got her the "Feel N Learn" pull-ups which are great because when they are wet, they feel wet to the child. Then we had a "sticker" program. I would put her potty in front of the toilet and we would both go potty together. Every time she was successful, she got a sticker that she placed on the bathroom cupboard beside her potty chair. That way she was able to see the rewards of her efforts. And I also made a big effort to praise her really dramatically! Then we'd both empty her potty into the toilet and wave and say "bye-bye peepees/poopoos, thanks for coming out!" She'd sometimes just sit on the chair and "pretend" to potty just so she'd get a sticker! But she quickly figured out that she needed to produce visible results... It took about 2 months. Then I took her shopping and let her pick out her own underwear (Dora). She was so happy to wear them and very, very proud. She had a few accidents but I never made a big deal out of them to her. It got tricky when we went out because it's important that as soon as said she had to potty, we had to pull over right away. I was sure NOT to fall back on the pullups just because we were out. It just prolongs the process. She was able to wear underwear during the day and a pullup at night. Then, eventually she lost the nightime pullup and I woke her at 2am and took her to the potty - every night for about a week. And then that was that.

Every child is different tho - the key is to make a big fuss when they go and not make a fuss if they don't. Good luck with it.

Answer 3

well c i have a 5 year old sister and she used to do that but now she goes to the bath room because every time she uses the bathroom i say good girl i am so prod of u u need to make the child fell good about using the bethroom and here is somthing ealse everytime they use the bath room and u know they pee or what ever then keep som candy and every time they use the bathroom then give them a piece of candy and then just start using that untill they can earn other things like toys or money untill they get to the age where they use the bath room on there on

Answer 4

With my youngest we didn't use a "baby" potty seat, but a Dora seat that rested on the toilet and a stool. Made her feel big.

A couple of things: Is she going to go to preschool? Sunday school? Play group? If she is and is looking forward to it, then she'll have to use the potty so explain it to her.

What about grocery store play rooms? Here they have to be 3yo and potty trained to play. Try using it as incentive.

I'd make a chart and explain it to her. Every time she has to go and goes she gets a sticker. If she wipes herself, flushes the toilet, and washes her hands too, she gets big shiny star sticker. At the end of each week, if she has gone potty every day she gets a reward (mcdonalds happy meal maybe). If she has gone potty AND done the wiping/washing, she gets to PLAY at the playplace at mcdonalds. If she messes up a couple times that week she does NOT get McDs, but plenty of praise, hugs and kisses for doing so well just trying with loads of encouragement to keep trying so you can go to mcdonalds.

No yelling if she pees on herself (can be hard). Yelling actually made my oldest have to pee. And at night, no drinks 30 min before bed.

Hope someone give you suggestion that fits your life.

Answer 5

A weekly chart. Give her encouragement and a star every day she doesn't pee and if she gets 5 stars in a week she gets a reward. The reward can be a favourite toy, take her out for food or just 2 hours of solid attention

Answer 6

1st off....take you little girl to a urologist to make sure nothing is medically wrong with her.

Limit her liquids. This in itself is the parents responsibility. Have your child visit the bathroom often.

I have a daughter nearly 14 and we just visited the Dr. 2 months ago for the same thing.

Fortunately for us nothing was medically wrong. The Dr. told my daughter she needed to take more responsibility and to limit the liquids and no liquids after 6pm what-so-ever!!!

Your daughters' bladder might not be fully developed.

Do not take the peeing personal....This sounds like what you're doing and if you do this it will only make matters worse. Think of your daughter and her self esteem....This is not about you but it is about your daughter's inability to hold her urine and make PEE in the toilet.

Answer 7

Maybe talk to her doctor and see what he says. Some children react that way when something is bothering them . She may require more attention or maybe something has scared her and she hasnt told you about it. That is a sign of depression in some children

Answer 8

set limits on the juice. stop the drinking at 6PM make her go to the bathroom right before bed time and she should be dry all night

Answer 9

might sound mean, but take her outside and spray her down with the waterhose. The water is really cold. Tell her everytime she does it, you'll do it again. I bet she will never pee on herself again.

Answer 10

from time to time it truly works to placed him in his room and enable him scream. little ones will many times get the message after awhile that the screaming will not do any good. you would might want to teach the television on genuine loud to attempt to drown him out. from time to time it is also a handbook to him that you at the on the spot are not listening to him and he's dropping his time.