This day...... July 08, 2006(Philippine Time).... My rents almost got separated ....... My dad almost left us but I managed to stop it..... How can I ever remove the trauma of this event happening again? T_T
2006-07-09 00:17:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you can't, I'm sorry to inform you. some things are out of our control whatever the cause of their separation is has not been resolved - maybe you have just delayed the separation, try to get them to talk with a counselor, maybe if they want to work it out the marriage can be saved Just remember you are not the cause of their separation - when our parents have troubles we always seem to think it is our fault it is not - your parents love you very much as evidenced by their not getting separated today
One last thing T_T prepare yourself for the fact that they may separate in the future - and they both love you and you hopefully will love them both very much - sometimes we fall out of love with our life partners but never ever our children - if you need to talk to someone about this seek out a spiritual or professional counselor
2006-07-09 00:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By doing something good for yourself. Great job taking initiative and keeping your dad in check, but the more you wonder about the what if's and the drama, the worse you're going to feel. The event's been settled (although the situation may not be) and you did your part. Now get out and do something for yourself. See a movie, jog a mile, hang out with some friends. W/e gets your mind off of it no matter how silly and mindless.
2006-07-09 00:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly before each and everything, provide up combating in the front of them. you'll make it so that they imagine it is their fault for you 2 combating. in case you 2 love the toddlers as a lot as you 2 say you do, Then the only time you 2 ought to wrestle is even as the toddlers are not any the position close to, round or contained in the living house.. deliver them to a chum and/or kin then wrestle. yet even as the toddlers are round you 2 do not ought to love one yet another yet do not tutor that to them. cause them to experience that purely because you 2 can't get alongside. that you 2 nevertheless love them.. yet signs and indicators to seek for in case your fearful that it is been effecting them is tantrums, performing out, hit some one or some ingredient.. under no circumstances communicate a sick be conscious about one yet another in the front of them.. bear in mind no remember what age they're they love both one in each and every of you and the better you wrestle they're going to improve up wondering that, is this love? Mommy & Daddy do it.. you both are responesable for those toddlers destiny. no matter if you do separate, let the toddlers understand its no longer because of them ( both one in each and every of you should attempt this no matter if its the perfect ingredient you do together) they're going to love you guy better for telling them and also you received't have as many issues later.. Now in case you adult males locate some one new do not let them communicate undesirable about the different figure in the front of the toddlers.. Or your in for a lengthy journey...
2016-11-30 22:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on , ur parents won't be there for u for the rest of ur life , if they chose to be seperated then that's the way it shall be , u'll still be able to meet them and talk to them whenever u want , it isn't the end of the world , it's gonna be hard at the beginning but u'll get used to the situation , don't be sad , that's the way it shall be , u just have to calm down and focus on yourself right now , find other occupations , seek support from ur close friends , those who really care about u and u'll get over it , don't worry
2006-07-09 00:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. i know it must be a traumatic experience you got there..
my parents also divorce when i'm 6 or 7.. they had a big fight.. throwing things.. and yelling each other.. me and my sister is hiding in our room.. i think my sister crying..
well i think you should talk personally to each other. just tell the truth what you think. what you feel.
but if somehow things can't be solved. well we just have to receive. they both are already mature and should know what's the best for them.
2006-07-09 00:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant control what anybody does. But just maybe you made your parents see how bad it would affect you if they parted ways. So they rethought the situation. I hope things work out for them and you. m
2006-07-09 00:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go to a couselor with ur family! it will help!
2006-07-09 00:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋