Im good-looking(not vain!) and bubbly, but they always take advantage, where is the perfect guy?!!!!!
2006-07-08 23:22:51 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No ones perfect baby!
Just keep on looking and start treating them like byaatch's! Make sure you're the one taking advantage next time round, when the right one comes along he'll love you wot ever!
2006-07-09 00:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if there is such a thing as the "perfect" guy. I'm 33 years old now & have had a fair few relationships in my time & have learnt quite a lot about men. Never come across too keen on them, the harder you play to get the more they want you (weird I know but true). Just because they pay you a lot of attention don't think you're special... men say things that they know you want to hear to get what they want & when they've got it they go! The biggest thing is to respect yourself, if you respect yourself then they will respect you. Having intercourse means a lot more to women than it does to men. When a woman has intercourse it's because it means something to her & she likes the person she's with. I've learnt the hard way that to men sex is just sex & it can be with anyone! They're not all bad, I've found myself a good one & I'm sure you will too! Good luck. x
2006-07-08 23:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by mini m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the one too nervous to ask you out. He sees you with all those other blokes and thinks he doesn't have a chance. Be a bit more selective and when your out look around and see if you can spot an admirer, give it a few minutes, then walk over and talk to him. If it goes poorly just leave, but at least this way you are being pro active about your situation.
2006-07-08 23:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by in vino veritas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just unlucky that you attract worthless blokes, you just need to set your stnadards a bit higher. you sound like a very nice person who deserves someone nice, just remember no one is perfect. the blokes are all twats for taking advantage of you. set higher standartds of what you want, also go more classy places or places yuo have not been before for better chances of meeting a good guy, because thye are around i am one.
2006-07-08 23:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I think I see you over there on the other side of this boat we are in. Honey you arent the only one with that problem. Just keep looking and hopefully you will find mister right. Im looking for Mrs Right. I get tired of the wait too. Good Luck!
2006-07-08 23:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually take advantage of the nicer girls who will let them. Dont do stuff for him that will degrade you or something that you dont like. If he's taking advantage of you, its partly your fault too cuz you let him. Be assertive at the right times and dont let him try to control you everytime.
Let him know that you also have a mind of your own. If you respect yourself, he will respect you too.
Have a good one
2006-07-08 23:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mean-Streak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will take advantage of you if you let them... So it;s up to you to let them know what you want...and don't want..
...and there is no such thing as a perfect guy... You'll have to decide what's perfect for you in a man..
2006-07-08 23:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by japjongetje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's perfect, but you should try to recognize the characteristics of the ones that treat you bad, and not let them get close to you
2006-07-08 23:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by net_at_nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from men. Learn to love yourself more and you will mirror that in the man you attract.
2006-07-08 23:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby they have charm when you first meet them but then they take advantage of you well that bad if you dont want them to most nice guys round here dont get girls if your not bad hard lary you dont get it is annoying but meh you will find mr right im sure
2006-07-08 23:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by castle12200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋