How do u make a guy pay attention to you?

Question

There is a boy from my work that i like. But I'm always so shy that I just can't talk to him. What would u do to make a guy pay attention to you?

Answer 1

Just act yourself you don't have to act like someone else for someone to notice you. Be who you are and people will notice you.
Guys like the shy girls belive me I know but if they don't notice you then they are not worth your time.
Goodluck.

Answer 2

depends on what kind of man he is... Does he like reading, sports, art, what type of music does he hears,etc...
-Listen this answer is a little long, sorry, but this is the least you needed in order for me to feel like I really try to help you; Without this long text, my help wouldn't be for real) Studies shows that the more things in common, the more likely is that he will pay attention; Eye to Eye contact and friendly smile is good; Listen to him; Also Studies suggest attraction is higher after say example a roller coaster Ride or another "on the edge" shared activity, but this is not all you will need. Depends on physical beauty also, but you should note that if you have the minimum requirements plus a good, fun personality that treats him and those he like right, there is more probability he will like you even more than some extremely beautiful woman who he thinks is somewhat not as likely as him, out of his league, stupid, less fun to be, or less relaxed to be with.People tenf to like things that they think are some what familiar. First you go talk with him ask something about a work, then thank him with an honest appraisal and in a mostly normal calm way act as if you will simply leave the room but then, fast enough to not really leave but slow enough to make it natural an relaxed, as if you forgot something-or- even better as if you have this sudden great idea to have someway to contact him- and go back ask for e-mail, phone, or even just a permission to talk him later at a next talking break - Here's the kicker, if you act like you are attractiveto him , don't worry- odds are he like it (and this doesn't include acting as too easy, not serious, those bad sinner profesion women-nor a sedductive show- act as inteligent as you are and be someone who just think he is interesting- Don't worry, he will love it... We, men like to feel women like us.Before you go to him, remember to ask (days before) feedback on your looks, and change those physical flaws, but then remeber not try to be perfect, cause a lot's of your imperfection he doesn't see them as there, or, another but different case, he might find them pleasing because he will feel relaxed that he doesn't have to be perfect. Also, he may find some of those "imperfection" nice because adds variation to the average ( a few more pounds is an example of "imperfection" that he might even like or not notice- just not be too fat that is too unhealthy; But if you are, then do this first, then be nice to him and do excercise, and later he will then notice you had lost weight-don't give up) Remeber, You are capable of find more men, you just find him as a potencial; So be prepare to find that he's married or something. The trick to hope is:
With today's technology and your effort toward that goal, Hey! nobody is ugly, and you are smart, inteligent, good, fun, and can get better- you have your audience, your personal fan's-baby! Whoa!! that's the Spirit... Just don't forget those good humanitarian values- that is a must- and if he prefer a notoriously bad mean girl, why would you want someone that stupid? Get someone better, nicer. Don't be with jerks. Hey...Rember this a game of probabilty so be prepare for anything...I'm a male and only like women for romance (heterosexual). Be happy and have fun meeting new guys,cause this is not the end of life, just the start of your adventures.. Be prepare, seek feedback ( both sexes) on how you are in dating , looks, and fun and make yourself those for-good honest changes- except your values and the things you like/dislike- change physical traits, style and attitude but not personality - don't be fake ID... Some call that "be yourself"; Remember this is not the only trick; you can create your own "how to meet him" tricks; Remember to have also: Confidence that includes Knowing nobody's perfect and, then, mix this known fact and that confidence in yourself with responsable, humble, inteligent acts... and MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU...

Answer 3

Its hard to find a way to get an attention of any person cause any one has his own bg and his own interests!

but you can use EYE to EYE contact! really works.. and you can just keep looking at him as your pure love! but dont do it if you dont has that thing for him!

Answer 4

MAYBE U SHOULD WEAR MORE U KNOW BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES OR HAVE A NEW HAIRSTYLE.NO NEED TO BE SHY FROM HIM.JUST GO RIGHT THERE AND TALK TO HIM.THEN BRING HIM OUT WITH U.AND KEEP ON MEETING.U WILL BE USED TO IT.

Answer 5

Talk Girl Talk!!!

Answer 6

Well, if you know what would he be attractive to, take another step:
Steps could be: Physical, Mental, spiritual!

Answer 7

pay for his expenses then he will pay attention to u

Answer 8

make yourself sexier,prettier and feel like you are a very gentle person.

Answer 9

I agree with Tammy.Just be yourself.

Answer 10

Take your panties off and drop them off in front of him. lol