I have a good friend who is in her thirties and is looking for a boyfriend. She has been asking me to set up dates for her witth my male friends. I have done so for about 10 times but each time the guys are not interested in her. I thing i have realised is that : she seems to be overfriendly in ways and i suspect that could be the way she turn off guys. My friend is average looking, quite slim and with a degree. Can U explain why guys are not interested in her ? I have tried asking those male friends & they just told me she is not suitable..
2006-07-08 23:01:55 · 11 answers · asked by curious_Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what i read, the lady was deperate to get to her purpose, get into relationship and get married. there are lady out there when they have reach 30' and suddendly they felt they ahve no more option and choice like when they are 20'. now they are hungry to get married.if ur friend is ready its ok but ur friend is not ready pull him out~!
2006-07-08 23:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think it's a lot harder these days to find a decent man. I have a lot of friends my age (33) who are still single are are looking for a relationship. I myself was single up until 2 years ago. I even joined an on-line dating site hoping to meet someone that way. Why don't you suggest that your friend does that, at least you know that everyone (or most people) on there are looking for the same thing! It can work, a friend of mine met a bloke on site about a year & a half ago & they now have a child together. I think that's a bit quick moving but they're happy so it can work! You're friend isn't desperate she just wants to be in a relationship. I wish her luck.
2006-07-09 06:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by mini m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what kinds of ways is she being overfriendly? Men are very picky people, unfortunately, so it could be anything. Some men are just looking for a good time, not a relationship. I need more information.
2006-07-09 06:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dun know how your friend looks so I can't comment on any physical appearance. By your description, if she is overfriendly in certain ways, you need to hint to her not too be too friendly.
Maybe you can consider getting your friend to join SDU to open up her social life. Guys won't tell you why your friend is not suitable for them.
2006-07-09 07:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Average looking and with a degree? she ought to know not to spread herself too thin because that would repel her friends. Tell her that and you'll be doing her the greatest favor.
2006-07-09 06:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tink it's becoz there is no chemistry?I tink guys tend to like gers who is abit shy ... Maybe her actions scared the guys.. actually there is nothing to be desperate abt...
just ask her to leave it up to fate ba.. what is urs will eventually be yours
2006-07-09 13:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by kopisoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she ugly?
sit her down and tell her how it is, that she is trying to hard...cause when ur looking u will never find it.. its always where u least expect it.....
I found my husband at Walmart.... when I was working there in college.... he went to college with a co-worker...
guys like the chase... and thats how I hooked him
2006-07-09 06:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by steveangela1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of 10 friends you can't get any INFO?
Dump the guy friends and tag the girl...they'll understand.
2006-07-09 06:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's freaking the guys out and learn to relax or she'll scare everybody away..
2006-07-09 06:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY HER NO HAVE GUTS MAN
2006-07-09 06:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by manuj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋