2006-07-08 22:05:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because love just aint enough.
2006-07-08 22:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like now - a - days people don't take their vows so serious. We are all different. All of us need to try every thing we can to make a relationship work, if nothing helps it then it is time to stop the relationship.
Another reason is that people don't know what a true relationship or love is. They think it is the fire of passion and they rush looking in to someones eyes and get swallowed up in the way that person makes US feel. If you are frantic without that person, it is most likely not a good solid relationship. Sometimes people find out that once the passion lessens that they don't have much in common with the other person.
Sometimes circumstances just make it impossible for two people to stay together.
It is sad, but we are all human.
It takes work, patience and perservence to keep a relationship going. Some people just don't have the balls to hang out and work things out. Then there are people who stay out of obligations to someone and live a sad life,always struggling, never facing that they could leave and find a happier life.
2006-07-09 05:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is simple to end the relationship, then to stick in the relationship. But if someone is abusive it is time to end the relationship then work it out. Because history show a person that is abusive, would end up killing someone. Plus some people when they fight use word that hurts more then the action of that person. Plus why would you want to be in a relationship that you two would be fighting all the time. Some people are never happy.
2006-07-09 05:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have given up on the relationship because they are either frustrated that all attempts to revive it has failed, or that they simply do not think the relationship is worth saving. The reason for given up could be the attraction of a fresh relationship. Unfortunately they are going to discover that all relationships must be worked at for survival.
2006-07-09 05:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by wemimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes compatability to make both of these issues work. Some times one will see that they just arent compatible with the other in a few dates or conversations, some will hang in trying to make somthing out of it and others endure alot of nonsense that could just have been avoided if they had opened their eyes in the beginning.
2006-07-09 05:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by momof8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am tired of being the only one that's trying to make it work and he just keeps on saying he is sorry,sorry my a$$.If a grown a$$ man does the same thing over and over,he should be dump.Never mind making it work.I don't have the energy nor do i have the time.My son needs me more then he does,I don't have to talk to my three year old son so much.So my dear to answer your question sometimes guys just push us to far!Hope that answers your question?
2006-07-09 05:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference there. Are you giving up WITHOUT working on it...or AFTER working on it???
Also, our "disposable" society has taken over ALL aspects...including relationships and love.
2006-07-09 05:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not always true. If this has happened in your case, just remember that the person who broke his relationship with you might still be trying to get things risht and might not have changed, Sometimes we change, at others time changes us.So it might be a victim of time.
2006-07-09 05:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by vanchit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone gives up, the majority that do give up either have been hurt by others to many times in the past that they have given up on any kind of haPPINES that anger loniliness and depression have took over their lives .
2006-07-09 05:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Edward R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love takes some work but shouldn't be HARD and shouldn't be painful(maybe a little painful once in a while) and if it is, it ain't love or isn't healthy love. sometimes ya gotta walk away for both of your sakes!
2006-07-09 05:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gave up on a recent relationship, i felt over wellmed, unloved, and just felt like we didnt talk enough to get to know each other, i just felt like we couldn't get along being our selves, so i just ended it...
2006-07-09 05:09:08 · answer #11 · answered by Liane S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋