i mean im 17 i know what most guy my age want i mean im not judging them all juss the onse i usually meet. i figure i could at least have 1 conversation with out them talking to my b00bs instead of me.... its kinda not fair.. what do i do to get them to know me and not see my for b00bs and a$$..?
2006-07-08 21:54:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do females wear tight T-Shirts, sort tops that expose their skin, skirts that are twelve inches above their knees or more and fit as though they are painted on them? Why do they mess up their hair by dying it fifty different times? What is with a mouth full of horses blood (Lip Stick)? And why all the crap about longer eye lashes? Why is their more make up on the face than syrup on pancakes?
Why do girls look at the males pants where his penis is? Why do they look at the size and shape of his butt?
Why do girls put crap around their eyes? And why do they make issues about rather males will look at them or not.
Why do they make such an issue out of what to ware to school. I do not believe that they try to look what ever for other girls!
Nature ment for males to LOOK at females, and females to LOOK at males and neither one tries to miss anything about the other.
2006-07-08 22:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ok, let's level. Even if I guy is genuinely interested in you and your character, you can't see personality. While the mind's occupied in conversation, the eyes naturally wander to something that interests them. Guys like breasts. It's not secret. So it shouldn't be a surprise that they look there. It's not necessarily the insult that most girls take it to be. Oh, and when a guy does hold his gaze up and keep good eye contact, just keep in mind that it's possible that this is just a trained exercise, not that he's listening any better. In fact, he may be paying less attention since he has to focus on where he's looking.
2006-07-08 22:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a book called every mans battle. I read that book in a men's studdy groupe at church. it helped me to know that I am normal. talked about lots of stuff that I coudnt talk about freely.
in that book it explains that for a man, looking at a woman sexualy can caus his boddy to produce a chemical. this chemical is like endorphins or somthing. it is veary pleashurable for men, and extreamly addictave. I try veary hard not to look, but find my self sneeking a peek occasionaly. I need to re read that book to help reinforce the ways to stop.
it is best to cover them up. you might enjoy the attension you get by wearing skimpy cloths, but men can be real perverts some times. we all have the desire to look, and the bad ones will sho up all the time if you expose yourself. I personaly thnk it best to let your beauty be revieald to the special someone you plan to spend your hole life with.
my ex liked to show herself off all the time. that is how she attracted me, and many other guys. but for me the times I felt most excited by her was when in the winter when she covered herself up. because then her beauty was for me only. fyi she was over 200 pounds when I married her. now she is less than 100 and I dont see her as beautifull, but I still cant resist looking she she bends over.
2006-07-08 22:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by ahazlewood.qhealthzone.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me all guys stare at a woman's chest; just that some do it more discreetly.
WHy do woman wear low tops that show them off and then complain that men are staring?
2006-07-08 21:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by sam_keane_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's killing me too , i'm 16 and ina mixed school so i can't give my colleague a pen without being exposed to its stupid looks and what really annoys me about it the most is that they know u r looking to them and they know that u r seeing them while they're staring at ur boobs but they just do nothing about it , they just go on staring ! how superficiel they r , don't u think !
2006-07-08 22:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few years until "guys your age" have matured a bit.
2006-07-08 21:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find an older guy, he'll still look but he won't drool, and you'll be able to carry on a conversation with him looking at your face and not your chest
2006-07-09 16:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s a fact that menc an not look to a women's eyes when they find their boobs attractive or big , i think is only few seconds that they can fake it
2006-07-08 23:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by emilo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you actually mature and grow up a little you might understand it someday. Idiot.
2006-07-08 22:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are hot blooded men ... normal. in fact as a woman , i look at man's *** so ... and shoulders and trust in certain moments you look at another thing with marvel and crave...
2006-07-08 21:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋