Why is life so hard?

Question

I hate my life, everything always goes wrong, I am bullyed and hurt and I hate my life. I wish it would end. What can I do?

Phil is correct in his assumptions. I am Athiest

Answer 1

I could give you a lovely tirade on how it's insulting to god to hate your life, but I think you're an atheist. And for that matter, so am I so that's just a bad idea all around.

I hate empty inspirational crap, so I'm not going to tell you it's definitely going to get better and that you'll end up better for having put up with this all. Just keep in mind that there are plenty of things in your life you can change, whether it's a gradual change in attitude or just a change of location.

Answer 2

first of all, changing your attitude towards life would be a good place to start. Standing up for yourself by being assertive in a positive way may prevent you from being bulleyed all the time. Try speaking your mind. Let the people that hurt you know when you feel that way.....wether it's your parents, friends or others. Speak up! You'll find life to be much more enjoyable.

Answer 3

-- written by Max Ehrmann in the 1920s --
Not "Found in Old St. Paul's Church"! -- see below

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.


With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Answer 4

Get used to it , because it happens a lot. There's not much you can really do about it when things seem to be going good it can all come crashing down on you in a second, So you have to be prepared for anything. Try not to be around the people that bully you to much because they are not your true friends.

Answer 5

Give it time. If things are that bad they can only get better, no? Don't let others bring you down. The secret to being happy is to stop giving a **** what others think of you and just live your life.

Answer 6

you should be more optimistic.don't hate your life just because you are bullied or hurt.make yourself stronger so as to not let others have the impression that you are an easy victim.if your mindset is positive, it radiates.there's got to be something nice and pleasant that had happened to you before.think on those happy times.

Answer 7

know that everyone in life has suffering, but its not permanet. Focus on what is enjoyable in life, and try not to obsess over what is 'wrong'. You don't have to do anything with your life, just try to change your perspective. Trust me, it works.

Answer 8

life is hard cuz world population is high!
dont put an end to ur life, because there is no more chance to be alive after that.

Answer 9

life is hard bcoz we ourself make it hard, start looking to your brighter side, love your life,neglect your pst and start living a new life,with happiness. i think u need a break,go for a holiday with your friends and come becoming fresh,and start looking at your life positively u need a friend.

Answer 10

dont say that, things can go wrong from time to time but we fight it and we move on, things for me arent going that great but im not going go try and end my life... i realise there are better things for me and i move on
good luck