i met a guy, and socialise with him in a large group, a week ago we shared a few kisses whilst out drinking, have heard from his friends that he likes me alot, and that most people give up with him before getting anywhere. i asked him if that night was a drunk thing or a bit more in it, and his response was we'll just have to see how it goes, i normally make contact with him, and do see him about maybe once or twice a week, is he interested, what course of action should i take
2006-07-08 21:06:03 · 7 answers · asked by redblueswirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems as if this guy has been hurt too many times - as you said girls have given up on him before getting anywhere. So hes trying to take it slow although he probabally does like you. But try not to get intense, as blokes don't like this . Like you said it's only been a week. If he wants to get to know you he'll get in touch.
Seeing how it goes means ; he does like you ( probally been hurt in the past) so he wants to take him time - make sure it is right - and 'see how it goes' ...
hope i helped ... xx
2006-07-08 21:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by ruby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he is a reactive sort of person and need some pushing to get anywhere in a relationship! the advantage is that you do see him often and have friends in common, its an easy basis to build a relationship on. The next time you guys are out drinking, make sure he is kind of drunk and kiss him again, and see how he responds, because a few times like that and it'll be generally accepted amongst your friends circles that something is going on, and then he'll be drawn into it too - voila!!!
2006-07-09 05:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by godfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when men say to a girl that 'see how it goes' that probably means that i do like you but im no at that point at the moment or i jus like you as a mate but wouldn't mind ******* you.
if him mates are saying that he does like you then maybe if wants to get to know you abit better to see if you two are right for each other and that yoy would make a good couple.
see how it goes meet up have a few drinks and a laugh and see where it goes
good luck
2006-07-09 13:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na he seems like he is not 100% into you dont do a thing leave it to him.
2006-07-09 06:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by jamesiewaimsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm I don't think this guy is after a long termer...he wants to let you dangle..and enjoys it...like most men...you don't want that..find a guy that will text YOU first and treat you like a princess....its his loss!
2006-07-09 04:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Liz S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he doesn't see you as a candidate for a long lasting relationship
2006-07-09 04:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, ok, walk, and do not persue. If he is that ..whatever, than he will find you. If needed. I would run. and don't look back.
2006-07-09 04:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋