And he claims to be gay, but yet doesnt mind making out with me, and actually enjoys it, but tends to want guys over me? I know we are soulmates, which makes it even more confusing, but I have never felt like this about anyone in my entire life... what should I do? Any advice? I am totally in love with this man, and I know he is in love with me... this is all so confusing!!! Please Help!!
2006-07-08 21:05:48 · 15 answers · asked by Tequila_Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your looking for advice from someone else but I think you need to talk to him about it. I have alot of guy friends that I've known since we were tots and up and I was crazy about one inparticular but the only person that helped me figure it out was him.
2006-07-08 21:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy with a not so traditional relationship i say go for it but you will never get what you truely want from this guy. not for a long time and mayby not ever. he will always be the way he is and you cant force him into being any different. He obviously likes guys and girls and will never give him self to you the way that you want him to so try and move on if you cant handle that coz its not worth the heart ache
2006-07-09 04:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Leashie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say, but this is probably going to lead to pain for you. If he is Gay or Bi, then you will have to be ready to accept the fact that you are going to have to share him with others. It is not his fault, as he was born this way, and he is unlikely to change. Better that you find someone who will love only you, and keep him as a special friend.
2006-07-09 04:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble, but gay guys can have sex with women. From kissing to actual intercourse gay men can do it.
Respect your friend and respect yourself. Find someone else.
2006-07-09 04:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to throw an answer out there..... But this seems to be a serious question, and unfortunately, i've got too many really bad jokes to pass through this "open door". sorry. no tips.
2006-07-09 04:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RRRUUUNNNN the other way!! There are many men were he came from.. Someone will return the same feeling you need back. Not think about others in a same sex.
2006-07-09 04:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by casper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM ! As soon you tell him as soon you will know the result , so you will understans is there any chance to be with him , if he says know it will be easier to find ohter guy. If he loves you too and want to be with you... i think you don't need this advice ;)
2006-07-09 04:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by tony b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tread very carefully if you want to save the friendship.you may freak him out and lose everything you have with him beleive me i'm talking from experience
2006-07-09 04:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by poptrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just stay best friends. I guess 'Will and Grace' got it to work.
2006-07-09 04:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by adamvanessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are other people out there
2006-07-09 04:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋