My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for like 2 months, but he's not paying enough attention to me and i'm not sure what to do. maybe i should just break up with him, or i don't know what to do. i feel bad because he works a lot and it seems like he never wants to spend time with me. I don't want to be selfish, but i don't want to be used either.
2006-07-08 20:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by AmandaJanuary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i think that he is working a lot, and i'm just feeling annoyed cause he's not doing what i want. this is my first serious relationship i'm 26 and he's 31 and it's just been a crazy relationship to begin with. Sometimes i get anxious and my mind just starts to go and go. So yeah I'm a psycho, he told me he loves me the other day, which i think was a little soon but I don't know I guess i'll just be confident in that until I'm told otherwise.
2006-07-08 21:29:57 · update #1
Work on your sex appeal. Make him chase you. Men love the chase.
2006-07-08 20:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make plans of your own and live your own life. Then you'll get to see how fun life can be without him and he'll hopefully see how miserable life can be without you and he'll come running to you. Two months is really too short of a time for this kind of behavior to already be happening. It sort of seems like you're being used.
2006-07-08 20:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he never wants to spend time with you then you should move on. Talk to him first, maybe he's going through some personal stuff and just isn't saying anything.
2006-07-08 20:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, aren't you self-centered and conceited...If he works alot then he probably is worn out. Maybe if your lazy @ss actually got a job you would see what he goes through. But you would rather sit here and feel sorry for yourself. Grow up and get a life.
2006-07-08 20:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 17:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by kadlec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just too tired from work. Show him affection and give him some pampering, maybe these would make him want to be with you more.
2006-07-08 21:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by popsantos143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many approaches, some sluttier than others. Start by giving him a sandwich and work from there.
2006-07-08 20:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seems to be confused. What you want from him. what you wnat him to do for you to feel that he cares for you. Talk to him and try to understand the person before making any decision
2006-07-08 21:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is always choosing his friends over you that not good...but its alos not good if he is always choosing you ovver his friends..if the case is that he works too much then maybe it just isnt the right time for you guys and you should move on...beucase he cant stop working and its not fair for you to ask him to sto pworking for you...you know
2006-07-08 20:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's over u in 2 months which sounds like he might be ? wake up and smell the coffee
2006-07-08 20:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by bigdog10210210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋