I dated a girl for only 4 months, near the end it was an on and off relationship which I didn't want so I ended it for good. That was about 7 months ago and now I can't seem to stop thinking about her, some how all the good memories of us are coming back and I keep feeling like I made the wrong decision. The only problem is that she won't talk to me anymore so there is no way I can tell her how I feel. How do I get over her?
2006-07-08 20:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Austin S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She moved, this is while I was at university so I don't know her number or her mailing address. I tried talking to her at the end of the year but she wouldn't listen, and I sent her an email a couple weeks ago but she hasn't responded. I really do want to move on but I just can't seem to manage going over the past.
2006-07-08 21:10:24 · update #1
Thanks for the help guys, I did some serious thinking and figured out that I will end up with the one I'm supposed to, like a soulmate. If it's her she will come back into my life somehow, if not then it will be someone else. Either way I will be happy, and it makes me happy to be able to look forward to this. Have a good one.
2006-07-09 10:22:27 · update #2
It all depends on you. If you really want to forget her, it'll just be easy. You're having difficulty because you dont want to forget her. Use your will.
2006-07-08 20:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by athame 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the bearer of bad new, but it's the old cliche answer....time. I know you said it's been 7 months, but it takes longer from some than others. If the heart wants what the heart wants, then write her a letter and leave it on her car, or mail it to her. Getting even won't solve anything. It will make you feel better in the moment, but you will start feeling bad about it 15 minutes later. And what is there to get even for...didn't you say you broke it off with her? Sometimes you don't know what you got until it's gone, unfortunately, sometimes it's too late. I hope you find the peace you are looking for.
2006-07-09 03:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a simple letter or try giving her a call. Ask her if she would like to have coffee with you to talk about some things on your mind. If she says no, be on your way. Begin to nurture new friendships.
2006-07-09 03:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They made a lovley invention called the telephone!!!! Get off yur duff and call the girl!
2006-07-09 03:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just go to her than teel her that the life without her is not so intresting and the moments u spend with her are the sweet moments and teel something withich slhe likes.
2006-07-09 03:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by fun guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only had her for 4 months,time will heal all the wounds however deep they are.just try too forget her and dont call her anymore.
2006-07-09 03:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by raizen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just stop thinkin abt her if u cant just think how stupid u were to lose her and then go out and find some friends and hangout
2006-07-09 03:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new opening, dude-- and I'm not talking about a new job.
2006-07-09 03:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get over her. Just move on.
2006-07-09 03:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by CreamsDvine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant get her off your mind then do something about it. give it another chance and see where it goes from there.
good luck
2006-07-09 03:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋