married before, in, or after college?

Question

I'm planning on attending law school after my bachlors in history. Should I look for marriage before college? in? or after?

Answer 1

I think you should "look" for marriage after college that way you can devote true focus and time toward building a close friendship and trust with a man.
But love has a funny way of working and if the chemistry is right it sure is hard to not at least have marriage thoughts in your head.
If the man is "the one" then you will both decide what is best for you and him without compromising your future goals.
Follow your heart, listen to your friends and parents then you'll be able to answer that question yourself.

Answer 2

After

Answer 3

you dont have to rush on things.. entering marriage life is not that simple... sure you found the man you're going to spend the rest of you life with but that doesnt mean you have to get married right away.. if you are meant for each other, you will still end up together right? just take your time..

i believe a person should enjoy being single first, to the fullest, before marrying, coz there are lots of stuff you wont be able to do once you're already married.

marriage should be a couple's top priority to make it work, what i mean is that, everything you do, you should always think if this is going to be good for your marriage, or the other way around. You also have to sacrifice some things. lots of responsibilities to consider..

if you're still in college, it will not be that easy to balance your school life and married life.. you might miss something on the way..

just remember to consider marrying just once in this lifetime... so make it right.. =) you dont want to end it up in a divorce... dont get too emotional, sometimes you need to follow your brain, not always the heart.. =)

Answer 4

While this is personal, I will say after unless you are mature and this is definitely the person. Why, I married my wife when I was nineteen and she was twenty-two. That is how you do it where I come from. We believed it was best for our son, since she had just given birth three months before.

Of course, I went to cooking school part-time for two years and we had to live off welfare for 14 months. I prefer work and family to college. We get to travel, play games, do art together, cook together, etc.

We have a great life but I do not want any more kids. Michelle and I agreed if we were going to do this, we would only have one. The first child went up for adoption.

Not again. I wasn't the father. It was another guy, I won't say who. She sees the kid once a month and is happy. We have not really explained it to our son, we only say he is like a nephew or something and that Michelle wanted this family to raise him because he was from someone else. Which is fine.

I have no issues, though I don't really like adoption. I would not want to raise another guy's kid, but she can see him when she wants to.

Answer 5

Marriage? Why would you want to get married? So you can get divorced 3 years after?

Don't hate, the odds are against a marriage that lasts more than 3 years.

Answer 6

You should look for serious relationships in college. But who knows, if you find the right guy and its the right time, there does not seem to be anything wrong w/getting married while you are still in college. That is, a long as it does not affect your schooling and career goal.

Answer 7

I met the head of the Intellectual Property assn at the local law school, she was carrying her infant.

It can be done, but requires a lot of help from your spouse. Law school is not something you can do as a hobby. Expect 40+ hours a week including homework and courses.

If you can manage it, wait until you graduate, unless your spouse is willing to help and understand that you will be a money sink; money in, nothing out, until you're done.

Answer 8

dont listen to these answers kid... only you and your heart can make the right decision for some people being married is what its about for some being married means being old for some marriage is just a word for getting laid but relationships will take some of your attention and focus away from your studies my advice is this: dont go looking for love let it find you and if it does revvel in it if it doesnt dont take it personally just focus on school

Answer 9

Love and romance is all about timing...When you met that special someone that you can't live without you will both know..Don't confuse love with lust.Marry for the right reason,and not because you feel its time to marry.

Don't rush life or marriage.Just let it happen and enjoy the ride.Make sure that both of you are ready for the committment of marriage.
Take your time to get to know each other..Spouses are supposed to be your closest friends.Friendships take time to nurture and grow.

Answer 10

Look for some one that you can marry, it might happen at any time but don't pass up on opportunities, when you meet that person you don't have to get married right away.