she is also his friend and was the one to introduce us. However we both liked him at the same time then I sort dated him then went through my "afraid of commitment" phase but I still really liked him and she didn't really anymore and had sex with him. Then broke his heart (he thought that she liked him and she just had used him for sex) She is a bit of a slut and hangs on him alot. I don't know. I trust him but I don't trust her at all! I then dated him for a month and we broke up and he went out with another girl and my friend asked him to help her with homework then talked him into spending the night. Nothing happened but I don't think its right to sleep in the same bed with some girl when you are dating somone else. Now we are dating again and have been for awhile. Near the beginning of this time she asked him to give her a back rub and he's a sweet kinda guy and didn't think anything of it. We talked about it but she is still doing stuff. What should I do?
2006-07-08 20:09:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just gotta exert some control over your emotions. Learn to relax and trust, but don't trust so blindly that you invite him to cheat on you. There's a very fine line to walk when you're controlling jealousy.
2006-07-08 20:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like your regular trailer trash Jerry Springer show.
If you don't trust your friend than how can you trust him. Its up to both of them to cheat on you. For one she don't give a damn about you if she is doing that to your honey. Two he is just as bad. I don't care how nice he is he is not suppose to be spending the night at your friends house or back rubbing the woman. The guy should back rub you and only you. If for some reason you and him get into a fight he just might go and be with your supposedly friend that's if he already isn't on the side. You need to let this firs timer what the meaning of a girlfriend is. Good luck sweetie!
2006-07-08 20:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend how you feel. If she is really your friend then she will back the heck off your boyfriend. It is not EVEN right for her to hang all over him, seduce him, use him, then dump him. No one deserves to be treated like that. If your boyfriend is such a nice guy, you should ask him to not let her hang all over him. Maybe if he knows you dont' like it, he won't let your friend walk all over him.
2006-07-08 20:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull her asisde and let her know that he is your man now. You need to keep your distance from her. Friends don't do this to each other.
2006-07-08 20:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls are trying to take your boyfriend away.
2006-07-08 20:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf.there are tons who would not 2 time you.
2006-07-08 20:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by dona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to back off because he is yours. it doesnt seem shes a good friend of yours though.
2006-07-08 20:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your guy who is a flirt. cant he say 'no' to your friend? he is falling for all the girls. he is too weak to say no. dump him. he will fool around. he cant control his temptations.
2006-07-08 20:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to trust him... if you can't resist it... just talk to him or the girls...
2006-07-08 20:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋