2006-07-08 19:45:06 · 16 answers · asked by mznatural30 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think that's possible hes going to hurt but u have to do it if that's really what you want to do so it doesn't hurt more.just explain to him its not working for you and its not fair to either one of you to continue in a relationship that's not going anywhere.. best wishes...
2006-07-08 19:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by c_sev 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
you cant break up that long of a relationship without hurting the other person
2006-07-08 19:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any thanks to break it off without hurting your children. No magic pill to feed them to lead them to ignore the guy they adore. it is going to likely be annoying, and it really is as a lot as you to opt for if the trauma that is going to reason the children is properly worth strolling faraway from this courting. perchance you may study your training and not in any respect bypass so right away on your next courting - study extra about the man you're about to deliver into your children' lives beforehand making the association everlasting. i'm particular you knew this guy changed into an alcoholic, yet you nevertheless chosen to bypass in with him, and now all of you're in a bind. communicate over along with your children and attempt to describe what's happening, putting it into age-proper words. and don't be in this variety of rush next time round.
2016-11-01 11:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg are you insane ?? 5yr relaionship .. and without hurting lol , even a months realation is more then enough 4 causing pain , but u can say you want your career to be your priority , this ruins ur studies / work / concentrATION / and u need some time to be alone and think about everything u guyz have been through
2006-07-08 19:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont! After 5 years someone will get hurt! Just do it and stop worring about hurting him because it is going to happen no matter what!
2006-07-08 19:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him for some days. Get down urself in his eyes. It will hurt a bit but not that much.
2006-07-08 19:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Robin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant if youve been together 5 years then its going to hurt but be kind. dont burn your bridges because you may find that hes the one for you after all. good luck just be honest
2006-07-08 19:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way that you would have the expectation that you could smell good after taking a poop without wiping afterwords.
2006-07-08 19:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by rightonrighton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't understand that logic if you were witha person for 5 yrs old why leave him .!!it strange but if u think u can do it without hurting him this can be done only in your dream it impossible
2006-07-08 19:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not pocssible to break long term realtionships wihtout hurting either partners. why do u wanna break it off?
2006-07-08 19:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by tobeornottobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋