Ok, I just walked in the door from a club tonight. I met this beautiful, charming, very cool women tonight. She did give me her number but I was wondering how long should I wait to call her? She doesn't have my number so I was wondering if I should maybe text her so she knows this is my number? She lives in a diff state and I am at the beach. What would be the better route.
Thanks girls!
I do not currently have any females around me to ask.
2006-07-08 19:40:54 · 29 answers · asked by Chef 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not calling anytime soon. I was wondering of a time frame
2006-07-08 19:44:42 · update #1
Dont call her right away, you'll look desperate. I'd give it a couple of days.
2006-07-08 19:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jewels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would call tonight if you want to talk, I don't think she'd be offended. If you're scared text her and ask is it cool to talk. Or wait until the am. Most of the time when we give our number out we are fascinated and want to learn more about the man. Isn't that a great feeling? Too bad you can't duplicate that excitement every day in a relationship...... sigh.
2006-07-09 02:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her in the morning to see if she'd like to do something. Maybe brunch or a walk on the beach.
Dont wait to long, and dont text it's childish. Make the call!
2006-07-09 02:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her right away, give it a small amount of time because you don't want her thinking you are desperate. At the same time, don't wait too long or she'll think you aren't interested in her. I would wait at least one or two days.
2006-07-09 02:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian Salgado Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you have something cool to invite her to do before calling. Don't call to just chat. Give a quick ring--no sooner than two days--and ask her to go someplace awesome with you. Keep the conversation short, say, "I look forward to seeing you," and then actually do look forward to speaking with her in person on your fabulous date.
2006-07-09 02:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you wait until lunch or even about mid afternoon so that at work if she really likes you she will get a little pick-me-up for the rest of the afternoon. i wouldn't text her that is to impersonal. i would actually call her. if she doesn't answer i was not meant to be
sorry dude
2006-07-09 02:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by kristala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for about a week because that way you don't sound too desperate. If you were to call right away she may get scared and panic because she would think that you are desperate.
2006-07-09 02:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her the following date. Say you wanted to thank her for the time you had together and you will love to see her again. You enjoyed her company. That will help. Goodluck!
2006-07-09 02:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a day. You don't want to call her right now cuz you might look to desperate but don't wait to long or she'll think that you forgot all about her and she'll forget about you. But tomorrow should be perfect.
2006-07-09 02:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble, but if you live in different states, don't even start this relationship. It won't last because it's new and you won't be able to put in the time it takes to build a meaningful relationship.
2006-07-09 02:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋