2006-07-08 19:38:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-14 19:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. But when it does come you will know.
2006-07-09 02:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋