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Question

ok as you know my bf broke up with me and the first thing that came to mind is to find some one fast si that the best thing to do are should i wait becuase i am really hurt and sad i mean i even feel sick and that happend like as soon as i got off the phone with him ok what i was thinking was ok there is a guy that lives next door to me and well he used to be frinds with my just now ex bf and i want to hook up with him and i am hoping that my ex will see us togeather so if he does what you think will happen will he get mad?????????????????????and is there a chance that maybe he might rethink these and call back i am like really sad and heart broken i mean every time i think abvotu him i just get this sick feeling in side and its like oh my god i know that half of the people here will say it will past but yall dont undersatnd i am crazy abotu this guy and knowing that he is with someone else hurts even more

he broke up with me because you see we dont live in the same city and we didnt see each other much becuase he so say he was busy but he didnt want to tell me he was like i don t want to hurt you so i got the picture and there was one more thing he didnt want to tell me beucase he said it would hurt my feelings so i kept on beggign him to tell me what and he said he found someone else the reall ture reason why he broke up with me is becuase we dont live close and he said he wants someone what will be around as long as he is so is there even a small chance that he will rethink this and call me back even though he found someone else???????????????????????????

Answer 1

in evrey five mile radius there is someone for you. In this case...its your neighbor haha. Just wait because your boyfriend might think what happened over.

Answer 2

Guys aren't all that they are cracked up to be anyway... Stop making a fool of yourself and go and treat yourself - get icecream / a dvd/ smoke a packet of cigarettes / anything that is far more useful or meaningful that dreaming about this loser. He is a loser becaue he doesn't want you. Therefore he doesn't deserve you. Guys dont change... If you seem desperate they loose interest. If you seem happy and couldn't give a ****... Well in a guys' eye you will look VERY attractive. Get your act into gear girl!!! Hop off the computer and do something thats meaningful - that doesn't revolve around guys. A happy cheaky girl has a lot more to offer than someone with that longing lovesick look/feeling.

Answer 3

Well nothing like using, errrr, I mean hooking up with the guy next door to try to make everything right in your world. Gee I wonder with an outlook like that if that could have something to do with why your boyfriend broke up with you. It might sound harsh but maybe you should spend some time on yourself and get your priorities straight and not get other people involved and messed up with this whole thing. Why play games with your ex boyfriend and the guy next door, it doesn't do anyone any good in the end.

Answer 4

I understand....I've been broken up before. Left by a guy, I was madly in love with.

It DOES make you sick....It's just like having someone you love die. A little piece of you dies too.

It is one of the most painful experiences we can suffer.

You could try dating someone else and see if that makes him jealous. If he gets upset over it, he is still in love with you.

A lot of times guys will want to spread their wings and see just how many girls they can get.

This is just to boost their ego. Especially if they are young.

It sounds like the 2 of you are.

When I was your age, I had a LOT of guys come back to me, after they dated someone else.

It happens all the time.

The longer the 2 of you dated, the better the chances are that he might come back to you.

The ONLY way to find out, is for him to see you with another guy.

Good luck. I really DO know what you are feeling. If you're like me...You probably can't even eat!..Crying a lot.

Try it and see.

Best wishes and good luck,
MOLLY

Answer 5

easy to answer:
first using the other guy is bad cuz u will be hurting him and using him as a toy and thats ugly to do he didnt hurt u so dun try to!
beside findin a guy cuz u wanna fix what happened wont help cuz u wont love the new guy and u will stay lost all ur life!
abt ur ex i know u heared that u should move on right? u did but u wont cuz ur full in love and stuff,ok here is a good thing it will end up with him back to u or with u over him
u just stop trying to get him back u ignore him u stop calling u try to end ur calls fast u start to avoide meeting him ,then BANG if u didnt forgot him the other thing will happen wich is him thinkin and wondering what she's doing is she dating who she is with who why where when and belive me one of the best stuff will happen!
wish u luck!

Answer 6

If you go out with another guy this soon, it will ONLY be for revenge. It wouldn't be fair to the guy you'd start seeing. Plus, you do need some time to heal. Give yourself some time, then try to move on. If you two were meant to be together, it will happen, but flaunting someone else in his face may not help, it may just make things worse. Think about yourself in this situation. Give yourself time to think things through. Try to not ponder on him. I KNOW it's hard, i've been more than I care to think about. But one guy really isn't worth it. I know that won't help the pain go away, but snatching up another fellow this fast, won't help it go away any faster either. Good luck!

Answer 7

Do you talk like you write?


Phew, slow down a bit, take a breath.


if he is with someone else that means he does not choose you, let him go, you might be accused of stalking.

Take time out for yourself, pamper yourself, go get a pedicure, manicure and massage and new haircut.

then when you feel good about yourself, don't be desperate. there are good guys out there. I am a good guy, but I am spoken for and never would I look at another woman.


Chill out babe.

it is true about the sea having fish in it, just wait, the fish will come to you. (a new bloke)

Answer 8

why do people do that??? break up with their mates then go find some one else...its really pathetic...I mean if you like the person that much...I can tell you right know, no one is going to fill the void...another thing is...even if you do find a nice person in the midst of it all you are going to get a "reality check" and say I cant do this and just end up hurting some one else like you got hurt...so why dont you just keep it in your pants do what ever you need to do to get over it and I can guarantee you in a couple of months you will be ready to hit the fields again..because if you assk a question like this you obvious didnt love them anyaways.

Answer 9

gal i feel ur pain but hurting or using another guys feelin 4 taking a revenge or getting back on ur ex is not the thing.
i have seen lot of gals who do that but they dont bring this in there mind that they can hurt that another guy the same way they have been hurt by one.
some guys dum gals some gals dum some guys its happening every where
don be desperate just think frm ur head
he may be not worth this

Answer 10

It will pass. Not what you wanted to hear, I know. Here's the thing: will you shape your emotions around what you think this guy wants, or will you pull yourself together and realize that you're more special than he would allow you to be and you have better options available? Go for the options available and be open to the possibilities the guy next door may offer.