why cant fat girls admit they're fat? We were at a club last night at these fat girls were trying to ruin our $hit or something and we finally told them we werent interested because we dont dig fat girls. they insisted they were athletic and told us we all just like skinny girls. We just like girls that, you know, dont outweigh us. that too much to ask for?
2006-07-08 19:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alot of retarded people jesus. i consider above 165 too much. and im 180. most fat girls are bitches.
2006-07-08 19:39:03 · update #1
Well, I'm older and overweight and I admit it. I can be a ***** when the situation calls for it; but usually, I'm pretty level-headed.
If you're 180 and you HONESTLY consider up to 165 on a girl to be potentially attractive (of course there's more than the shape that goes into determining that), then it is reasonable. It's a fact that attraction exists, and you can't help what you're attracted to. Some men like curves, and some like the bony skeletal look.
However, it doesn't mean you have to be rude if someone doesn't meet your criteria. Unattractive people are people, too, so you could be more diplomatic.
If you're at a club, you don't need to really engage in the conversation in the first place, just nod and say look elsewhere around the room. You also can walk away from someone -- just say, "have a nice night" or something, and head across the room like you see someone you know.
If she pursues you, well then you have to be a little more direct. A club is not typically where people go to start a relationship, so you could be honest and admit that you aren't looking to "get to know" someone at this time (that at least acknowledges that she might be a great person). You could say that you're flattered by the attention, but the attraction isn't mutual, and wish her well.
If that doesn't work, then she's a stalker and you have to call the cops ;)
2006-07-09 02:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your idea of fat may not be normal. I am "thick" if you look at my pics you can tell. However I am no Calista Flockhart, my ribs don't show, my stomach is flat and I am definitely not fat. Most fat girls know they are fat. You might be looking for anorexic chicks.
2006-07-08 19:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know what i think is more annoying? Skinny bimboo girls pretending they're fat.
oh yes, i forgot, fat girls can't hit on people!
Go live in Iran.
PS: i am not a fat chick
2006-07-08 19:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by paliminka 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP!!! dont mean to sound rude but if you are concerned about looks more than personality than YOU ARE THE DORK AND NOT THEM. WEIGHT DOES NOT MATTER. how many REAL friends do you have?????????????
2006-07-08 19:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by tlmorton@sbcglobal.net 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I once knew this fat girl but i sucked all her fat out with a straw and then i was fat and she was not
2006-07-08 19:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
they just don't like thinking that they are although they are. and to u people who think he's mean, he has a stinking preference leave him alone, and fat girls get lovin, from black guys. sheesh.
2006-07-08 19:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by nunya_business42 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
um, it's a shallow request. But if you want a shallow girl, then by all means...
2006-07-08 19:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It all sounds kind of crude to me.
2006-07-08 19:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey dude could try and not be an ***!!! big girls need love to!!
2006-07-08 19:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by LiL'rocker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
where's the question short khop
2006-07-08 19:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋