i slept with one of my best friends the day after me and my b/f broke up but now we are back together and i love him with all my heart but i don't want to hurt him. He told me what he did while we were broken up but all he did was take a girl out on a date to the movies. should i tell him what i did with that guy or should i tell him some thing different?? please help!!
2006-07-08 19:26:38 · 19 answers · asked by psychobutpretty_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes u should tell because he was honest with u, so u do the same for him
2006-07-08 19:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were broke up for 2 days and he tooks a girl out and you slept with someone??? that means that you guys were really looking for some alone time, which sais that since yall have been together its been like white on rice, together all the time......If it was that easy for both of you to start doin other things in 2 days then maybe you shouldnt be with each other
2006-07-09 02:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by LOWEND99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't tell him, but then again he might allready know from his friend. We do like to brag, plus he might be drinking one day with your B/F and say hey man remember that time you broke up w/your G/F well I f#^%*#d her and oh was she good. Then he will be like W T F . Then as you know it you will very much here it and it might hurt you more down the road. Just break it to him slowly. Hey you did brake up and where felling neglected RIGHT.
2006-07-09 02:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Galaxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he was honest with you, and you do love him, and if you know for sure he loves you back, hands down, you should tell him. Now, if you aren't sure about his reaction(like if he gets rough), I'd keep it a secret as long as it can last, but he will find out eventually, and it's probably best if you tell him. Love is love, and if it's there, honestly intertwines with it, but good luck.
2006-07-09 02:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No DO NOT TELL HIM. What done is done it will do no good to tell the true as long as both of u are in love keep it secret is the best thing.
2006-07-09 02:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by james 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say that you done screwed the relationship sounds like your in high school doing something stupid like that so Id say the best thing to do is say heck with relationships right now cause they wont work anyway. Trust me.
2006-07-10 04:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by dan_20_la 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest i would say but if you think that it is seriously going to ruint the relationship then i dont know your kinda on your own
sorry but i think being straight forward is the best way even though it may not turn out the best or in the most ideal way
2006-07-09 02:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you really know......is he the understanding type? heck do you even believe his story? Are you and your best friend gonna get down and do the nasty again? All these questions and more, that we don't have an insight to....ask yourself the tough questions, then you'll know what to do.....
2006-07-09 03:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your 85, and have a dozen or so grandkids, then tell him, cause if he tries to leave, just hide his walker :)
2006-07-09 02:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by dukefritz79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him, if u keep this ur just building a gap in ur relationship, even though this might hurt ur relationship a bit. ur between 2 swords
2006-07-09 02:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by isopropyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋