Well we weren't really going out but we were getting there. we talked on the phone for at least an hour a day mostly more. Then he stops calling altogether with no explanation. It has been about a month i have heard from him last.
2006-07-08 19:06:58 · 28 answers · asked by Floating on air. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like the saying, "He's just not that into you", sorry to say. If he really liked you, he would call. In the book, "He's just not that into you", one of the authors says that calling is not hard to do and there shouldn't be any excuse for him not calling. There are guys who give closure, where they would confirm that there isn't going to be anything happening between the two of you and there are guys who just disappear. I would forget about him. Even if he does call, don't call him back. He's probably calling because you're on his back up list and he was rejected by other girls. Don't let him use you. Don't confront him of why he hasn't called, just forget about him. He's not worth it. You want a guy who really likes you and who will always call.
2006-07-08 22:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by pureessence 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He may be no longer interested or just isn't in the mood to talk for a while. For me, talking on the phone for an hour everyday can get a bit tiring. Maybe ask him to chill out with you, and see what happens from there. No biggie.
2006-07-09 02:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by mike l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously is a coward and feels that if he stopped calling you would get the hint, if he was any kind of man he would have been up front and told you he didn't want to continue the friendship.
I say the heck with him...he wasn't worth the trouble, find someone who will treat you the way you would like to be treated-- with respect.
2006-07-09 02:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends, I guess, on how badly you want it to be more than friends. Apparently, he knew you two were headed that direction & it scared him. Maybe because he's not ready to settle down or maybe because he only sees you as a friend & avoiding you is the easiest way to not have to deal with it. If it's going to bug you, I recommend calling him. Just start off with your idle chit chat. Then after a while, maybe ask him. At least you'll have your closure...and maybe more :)
2006-07-09 02:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Me in TN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it up. A lot of guys loose interest after they feel they have you. Besides, why do you want to talk to a guy that doesn't have the decency to return your phone calls? That makes him one of three things. A moron, an asshole, or whuss. Move on, because if you don't, you're only asking for heartache.
2006-07-09 02:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his mommy scolded him coz he made the bills raised up!!!his mommy could not afford to pay the bills n just told him not to use the phone...i guess this would be the best answer if he still like you..n myb he does like you coz he wont wasting his time talking to you every nite..if you r not interesting to chat with right?...or myb he's on vacation or sumthing,or myb his family members are dying n have to go aboard...there will b a good explaination to you if he still want you..
2006-07-09 02:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by me__mine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has suddenly stopped calling, then just let him go. He's just not that into you. Worrying about him might keep you from meeting someone even better.
2006-07-09 02:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ilene W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just time for you to move on. It is up to you to decide what you deserve. If he isn't calling you anymore, he just isn't interested, painful as that is to accept. Don't sell yourself short by hanging on to hope here. Pull yourself up and find someone else who IS into you.
2006-07-09 02:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by spark enigma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please save what self respect you have left and move on
don't beg and plead and leave yourself open to abuse and pain
you deserve better. Call someone else. go out with your girlfriends or chat here for a while and take his big hint that he is no longer interested or he would have called
2006-07-09 02:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will tell you but you may not want to hear...He is no longer into you....Best thing to do is forget about him and move on! He found a new toy someone else to string along.
2006-07-09 02:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋